{"id":1776,"date":"2012-06-15T07:26:58","date_gmt":"2012-06-15T12:26:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.rawtop.com\/blog\/?p=1776"},"modified":"2012-06-15T07:26:58","modified_gmt":"2012-06-15T12:26:58","slug":"anonymous-sex-vs-connected-sex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/2012-06\/anonymous-sex-vs-connected-sex","title":{"rendered":"Anonymous Sex vs. Connected Sex"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Load: 2012-20<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s a guy I&#8217;ve emailed back and forth with a few times and a few days ago we finally hooked up. I was in one of those moods where I was horny, but sorta not horny. I knew going into it that the hookup could be problematic &#8211; not because of him, but because of me. It&#8217;s just a sexual energy thing &#8211; I had a latent sorta sexual energy going &#8211; not a full hardon sort of energy&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>He was in an awkward place to get to &#8211; sorta close, but too far too walk, not easy to get to by subway, etc. Finally I figured out I could take a bus from here to there and that worked really well &#8211; I had to run a little to get the bus, but it got me over there really quickly, which was good, &#8217;cause it was raining a bit&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>I get there and he answers the door in just a towel. He&#8217;s this thin, sorta hairy, but not too hairy guy&#8230; Pretty much the textbook definition of an otter (though most otters have a little more hair on them). We go into his bedroom and he picks some porn to watch while I take off my clothes. We play around with each other a little bit, and (like usual lately) I feel like I need to rim him to get completely hard. He had the A\/C on, but it didn&#8217;t seem to be cooling much of anything. I was worried with the heat I&#8217;d overheat and be useless. That combined with where my head was at&#8230; Well, you get the picture&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>So I manage to get him on all fours and I start eating out his ass. I get hard pretty quickly which puts me back in the game. When I get up I really want to fuck, but he&#8217;s not ready for that yet. OK&#8230; He has me lay down and he starts going over my body. I&#8217;m a bit sweaty, which he really likes. He starts licking the sweat off my body. I raise my arm and there&#8217;s a bit of musky pit smell. I&#8217;ve always liked the smell of my pits and so did he&#8230; He sniffed them and licked them, and then went back to licking sweat off other parts of my body&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Finally he gets to my dick &#8211; which he sucks pretty well. I&#8217;m just laying there being fairly passive. There are a few guys who have gotten me completely hard while being laid back and passive &#8211; when it works it usually qualifies as some of the best sex of my life, but this guy was good &#8211; but not that good. My dick starts going to half mast. Ugh&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>I finally rim him a bit more, but this time my dick isn&#8217;t responding so well (the heat&#8217;s not helping), but I get hard enough to fuck him so I push in. He wants to be fucked missionary style, but I gradually get him rolled over onto his side and then onto his belly. But by that time I&#8217;m just not quite hard enough for a good fuck. I mean, I fuck him, but it was far from my best performance and I never really feel like I&#8217;m even close to cumming.<\/p>\n<p>After a while I sorta just give up. I&#8217;m a sweaty mess by this point. I&#8217;m afraid if I roll over onto his bed he&#8217;ll have a huge wet spot when I get up. But at the same time he liked me sweaty, so (at his suggestion) I lay on top of him, which he liked. We took it slow for a while and when I cooled down a little I roll over. I still managed to make a sweaty wet spot on the bed, but it wasn&#8217;t quite as bad as it would have been 5 minutes earlier.<\/p>\n<p>We play with each other for a while and finally I feel like I&#8217;ve cooled down a bit, so I went back to rimming his ass. This time my dick responds, and by now he&#8217;s gotten the idea that I want to fuck him on his belly. I can tell it&#8217;s not his favorite position &#8211; too impersonally and anonymous &#8211; he likes connected sex (eye contact, etc.), I like anonymous sex, but he goes along with it&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>This time it&#8217;s FAR better &#8211; his hole is massaging my dick just right. I start feeling the sensations that tell me a load will come. He&#8217;s just a piece of meat to me in that moment &#8211; a hole to fuck. That&#8217;s how I like my bottoms&#8230; Everything was working at that moment and he got my load&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>In the end it was largely a conflict between his desire for connected sex and my desire for anonymous sex. Had he just rolled over on his belly initially he would have gotten my load quickly.<\/p>\n<p>While it didn&#8217;t go all that smoothly, he did eventually get my load and all&#8217;s well that ends well.<\/p>\n<p>BTW, I&#8217;m still doing <a href=\"http:\/\/www.breedingzone.com\/threads\/14042-A-Personal-Challenge-No-More-Wasted-Cum\">my &#8220;no jacking off, all loads go inside guys&#8217; asses&#8221; thing<\/a> that I started back on the first of May. So far it&#8217;s going really well. I&#8217;d say it actually really helps me sexually since I don&#8217;t waste sexual energy&#8230; Though when I work on porn sometimes I feel like I need to blow a load to see it as just work&#8230; But I resist the feeling and save the load for a bottom&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Load: 2012-20 There&#8217;s a guy I&#8217;ve emailed back and forth with a few times and a few days ago we finally hooked up. I was in one of those moods where I was horny, but sorta not horny. 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