{"id":1890,"date":"2012-08-13T06:43:50","date_gmt":"2012-08-13T11:43:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.rawtop.com\/blog\/?p=1890"},"modified":"2012-08-13T06:43:50","modified_gmt":"2012-08-13T11:43:50","slug":"trying-too-hard-to-please","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/2012-08\/trying-too-hard-to-please","title":{"rendered":"Trying Too Hard To Please"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Load 2012-37<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s a bottom who I&#8217;ve been in a lot of contact with lately, but timing always sucks. Well, Saturday morning things worked and I went over to his place. He told me he&#8217;d have the door unlocked and he&#8217;d be on the bed face down, ass up. It all sounded pretty good, but honestly I was sorta in the mood for something a little more relaxed. Still, anonymous is always a good way to start&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>I got to his place, the door wasn&#8217;t ajar, but since the doorman had just called his number and he had told me he&#8217;d be waiting on his bed, I tried the knob and it was unlocked. Usually in anonymous pump &amp; dumps the lighting is pretty low, but all the blinds were open and there was tons of light (not a problem &#8211; just more of an observation). He had an alcove studio, so I went over to the alcove and there he was just as he said he would be.<\/p>\n<p>I wasn&#8217;t in a rush so I took off all my clothes and got down on my knees to rim his hole. The hole was a little musky, but seemed pretty clean so I had some fun with it &#8211; sucking on it, etc. Too bad there weren&#8217;t other loads in there. I love when I suck on a guys ass and he can push out cum from other tops. That got me hard, so I stood up and went to fuck him. There were several bottles of poppers around, but I didn&#8217;t see any lube, so I got things as wet as I could with spit and pushed in.<\/p>\n<p>Long story, but I had pushed stretching my Prince Albert too far to quickly (<a href=\"http:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/2012-08\/any-of-you-have-experience-with-ball-stretchers\">ball stretching<\/a> &amp; PA stretching at the same time is a bad idea) and then slept in <a href=\"http:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/2012-08\/success-i-got-the-0-ga-ring-in-my-pa\">the bigger ring<\/a> which irritated it, so I had to take it out, give it a few days of nothing and then start all over. I had just put <a href=\"http:\/\/tumblr.rawtop.com\/post\/29216416540\/curved-barbell-prince-albert\" target=\"_blank\">the curved barbell<\/a> back in the day before and even it was pretty sore and irritated. But he took the extra ball on the bottom of my dick without a problem.<\/p>\n<p>He had a nice tight hole &#8211; I almost wonder if he was clenching to give me a good fuck. But what was interesting was that I seemed to hit bottom in his ass really easily. That doesn&#8217;t usually happen unless the guy is around 5&#8217;4&#8243; and this guy was maybe 6 inches taller than that. Usually I love hitting bottom but every time I did my PA would shoot out a bit of pain. It wasn&#8217;t particularly happy about fucking when it was so tender.<\/p>\n<p>I lasted maybe a little bit longer than usual, but still came pretty quickly. It was at this point that the bottom said &#8220;stay inside me&#8221; &#8211; which I intended to do anyway, but the problem was one of position. I tried briefly to lay on top of him, but I&#8217;m a big guy and didn&#8217;t know whether my weight was too much for him. I went to roll us over one way but didn&#8217;t want to be looking into the mirrored all (too much looking at each other for an anonymous fuck). So I rolled the other way, but it was a little awkward &#8211; like he didn&#8217;t really want to or he wasn&#8217;t expecting it or something.<\/p>\n<p>There was just something a little off with the chemistry at this point. Best I can describe it is the bottom wasn&#8217;t relaxing and just being in the moment. Still, I pumped my dick in an out of his hole. Since I had cum I wasn&#8217;t 100% hard, and with the position we were in my dick was a bit bent. But I found if I pushed with my fingers where the bend was that I could continue to fuck him pretty well.<\/p>\n<p>One thing I did was pull my cock so it would almost come out. This was the thing that <a href=\"http:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/2012-07\/gave-a-quickie-load-to-a-tweaked-fuckbud\">caused the bottom so much pain a could weeks before<\/a> &#8211; when the ball on my PA repeatedly gets inside the sphincter it can be painful. Though a couple weeks ago i was really slamming into the guy&#8217;s ass &#8211; this was just a relaxed, slow fuck. I chatted briefly with him afterwards and he didn&#8217;t mention any pain &#8211; so I don&#8217;t think that was the case this time. Still, I imagine he got the sensation of feeling the ball on the PA every time I pulled out.<\/p>\n<p>As I was starting to get soft I pulled out. I really wanted him to clean off my dick, but he didn&#8217;t volunteer and I didn&#8217;t force the issue. I got up and felt his cummy ass.\u00a0 I couldn&#8217;t resist so I licked some of the cum up (tasted good!). All in all the bottom seemed to want a quickie pump-n-dump, so I figured I&#8217;d leave. He said I could take a shower or whatever, so I went into the bathroom and tried to clean my dick &#8211; not because he was dirty, but because I knew my PA needed the cleaning. I pissed a little in his sink and then used soap and water for the rest.<\/p>\n<p>When I came out he said I could stay longer, but I wasn&#8217;t really feeling that vibe. Honestly I think he read the blog saw some of the pump-n-dump hookups I&#8217;ve been having lately and tried really hard to give me what he thought I wanted. You can&#8217;t fault a bottom for that, but I sorta wish he hadn&#8217;t tried so hard.<\/p>\n<p>As I was dressing he apologized &#8211; he had looked back and seen me. Clearly he was trying to live by a rulebook he got off the blog. Guess he missed the part about how I like to start pretty anonymous, but the ending doesn&#8217;t have to be. Then I realized my keys weren&#8217;t in my pocket, so we looked around for them a little (turns out I had left them at home). Then I was off.<\/p>\n<p>All in all a good fuck&#8230;. While the bottom tried to hard to please, what he proved to me is he&#8217;ll probably give me whatever I want. I could probably rough fuck him with my big PA, or even get into BDSM with him and he&#8217;d take it light a champ &#8211; &#8217;cause he works so hard to please. So in the end it&#8217;s all good&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>There was a little funny incident as I left the building. As I came in I saw what I thought was an older leather queen on his Harley outside the building. He had the leather vest on with pins all over it &#8211; very old school leather bar. Then as I was coming down the elevator these two guys were talking and by the conversation it seemed one was the coop board president. I walked behind the president as he left the building and the old leather queen was still outside and they started chatting about how he didn&#8217;t know if he was going to go for a ride upstate because it might rain. I just thought &#8220;only in New York&#8221; are regular people so accepting of difference. I mean there&#8217;s a chance the guy wasn&#8217;t gay &#8211; that he was straight and part of some aging motorcycle club, but it was the West Village and the guy looked 110% like the old guys you used to see at the LURE on a Saturday night. I mean full leather with all the pins stuff to prove their track record in the community. And here was this older (probably) Jewish guy who probably had 2 kids, 4 grandkids treating the leather queen and his issues like they were completely normal. THAT is why I live in New York.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Load 2012-37 There&#8217;s a bottom who I&#8217;ve been in a lot of contact with lately, but timing always sucks. Well, Saturday morning things worked and I went over to his place. He told me he&#8217;d have the door unlocked and he&#8217;d be on the bed face down, ass up. 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