{"id":2339,"date":"2013-12-09T14:50:58","date_gmt":"2013-12-09T19:50:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.rawtop.com\/blog\/?p=2339"},"modified":"2013-12-09T14:50:58","modified_gmt":"2013-12-09T19:50:58","slug":"sex-with-friends-just-doesnt-work-for-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/2013-12\/sex-with-friends-just-doesnt-work-for-me","title":{"rendered":"Sex With Friends Just Doesn&#8217;t Work For Me"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Load 2013-48<\/p>\n<p>Not sure why I didn&#8217;t figure this out sooner, but I&#8217;ve come to the conclusion that sex with friends just doesn&#8217;t work for me. I like things anonymous. When I get to know someone my dick just doesn&#8217;t respond. I mean my boyfriend and I don&#8217;t have sex anymore &#8211; we&#8217;re joined at the hip in many ways, but it&#8217;s not really a sexual relationship. I <a href=\"http:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/2008-01\/just-not-meant-to-be\">tried fucking a good friend a few years ago<\/a> and that didn&#8217;t go so well &#8211; just couldn&#8217;t cum with him. I have <a href=\"http:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/tag\/jayson-park\">a really bad track record with Jayson Park<\/a> even though I think he&#8217;s incredibly hot &#8211; but we&#8217;re friends and hang out socially sometimes. There was the anonymous Latin bottom I used to fuck, but I got pretty unpredictable with him as I got to know him. There was the hot black athlete a few months ago who hung out with me and my bf a few times after we&#8217;ve hooked up \u2013 only came the first time with him despite the fact that he&#8217;s really hot. The list goes on and on\u2026<\/p>\n<p>But most recently is the black fuck bud from the neighborhood. I used to cum every time with him. Now I&#8217;m hit or miss. Fucked him again on Saturday morning. While we were stripping down he started asking me about how my Thanksgiving was and I just shut down the conversation with a &#8220;it was fine&#8221;. I knew if we started into personal chit chat that it wouldn&#8217;t go well. We fucked and I did give him a load, but I almost didn&#8217;t. Things weren&#8217;t working quite right in part because he kept bucking back but I finally got into this one position where the head of my dick was getting massaged just right and I finally did cum &#8211; but it almost didn&#8217;t happen.<\/p>\n<p>Compare that to <a href=\"http:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/2013-11\/bred-my-fav-latino-muscle-bottom\">the muscular little Latino who I fuck<\/a>. Been fucking him for years now and still don&#8217;t know his name. We never have substantive conversations. And I cum every time with him. And I love sex parties and bathhouses. I don&#8217;t always cum but they&#8217;re tons of fun and my dick has plenty of energy. And dark room pump-n-dumps are some of my favorite fucks. The more anonymous, the harder my dick and the bigger my load.<\/p>\n<p>So the moral of the story is, if you want to be my fuck buddy, just stick to sex \u2013 be a hole for me and nothing more. Or, if you really want to get to know me, that&#8217;s fine \u2013 just realize the sexual part will probably die.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Load 2013-48 Not sure why I didn&#8217;t figure this out sooner, but I&#8217;ve come to the conclusion that sex with friends just doesn&#8217;t work for me. I like things anonymous. When I get to know someone my dick just doesn&#8217;t respond. I mean my boyfriend and I don&#8217;t have sex anymore &#8211; we&#8217;re joined at [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[13,7,19,87],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2339","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-black","category-came-in-his-ass","category-friend","category-things-i-like"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2339","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2339"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2339\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2340,"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2339\/revisions\/2340"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2339"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2339"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2339"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}