{"id":256,"date":"2008-06-25T18:48:00","date_gmt":"2008-06-25T22:48:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.rawtop.com\/blog\/?p=256"},"modified":"2008-06-25T18:48:00","modified_gmt":"2008-06-25T22:48:00","slug":"despite-my-best-efforts-new-yorkers-are-using-condoms","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/2008-06\/despite-my-best-efforts-new-yorkers-are-using-condoms","title":{"rendered":"Despite My Best Efforts New Yorkers ARE Using Condoms&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[To be clear, the title is a bit tongue and cheek &#8211; see my comment in the comments section&#8230;]<\/p>\n<p>A new report is out today from the NYC Department of Health (<a href=\"http:\/\/www.nyc.gov\/html\/doh\/downloads\/pdf\/survey\/survey-2008safe-sex.pdf\" target=\"doh\">PDF<\/a>) that shows that a surprising number of New Yorkers are using condoms&#8230; Here are some of the findings:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Gay men with multiple partners are more likely to use condoms than straight guys or bisexual guys. 75% of gay men used condoms in their last sexual encounter compared to 63% of straight guys and 55% of bisexual guys.<\/li>\n<li>23% of gay men had 5 or more sex partners in the past year (compared to 6% of straight guys).<\/li>\n<li>62% (straight + gay) of guys with 5 or more sex partners used a condom the last time they had sex.<\/li>\n<li>Overall 60% of New Yorkers used condoms in their last sexual encounter.<\/li>\n<li>18-24 year olds (men + women, gay + straight) are <span style=\"font-style: italic;\">more<\/span> likely to use condoms.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>I&#8217;m sorta surprised the the numbers &#8211; that so many guys are using condoms&#8230; Only 25% of gay sex in New York is bareback. But the good news is that the percentage is nearly double for bisexual guys (45%). [Great news for us, but possibly scary for the women they fuck who don&#8217;t know they&#8217;re bisexual.]<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m also really surprised that only 23% of gay guys in New York have 5 or more sex partners. Hell, I had double that the other night <a href=\"http:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/2008\/06\/bred-hot-beefy-daddy-anon-fucks-gi-joe.html\">at the bathhouse in Montreal<\/a> (if you count oral in with fucking).<\/p>\n<p>According to the spreadsheet I&#8217;m keeping of my hookups, if I keep up at the pace I&#8217;ve gone so far this year, I&#8217;ll get my bare dick in 89 holes I&#8217;ve never fucked before, plus the ones I have fucked for a total of 113 sexual encounters, and I&#8217;ll deposit 87 loads in guys&#8217; asses&#8230; If you add in oral sex at places like backrooms and bathhouses, I&#8217;d be well over 100 sex partners this year&#8230; And I don&#8217;t even consider myself to be all that sex-obsessed&#8230; I mean there are guys who are getting <span style=\"font-style: italic;\">a lot<\/span> more sex than me&#8230; There are plenty of nights (like tonight) when I&#8217;m just not in the mood&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Even in my slower years I was getting in about 25 new asses each year and depositing slightly fewer loads than that&#8230; The concept that over 3\/4ths of gay guys have fewer than 5 sexual partners when a slow year for me is 25 (plus oral) is sorta shocking&#8230; I mean who are these people and why aren&#8217;t they having sex?<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve been chatting with &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.bareencounters.net\/\" target=\"bb80\">BareBottom1980<\/a>&#8221; &#8211; the blogger out in Omaha. He sorta proves a point that anyone can have a good sex life. He had gotten <span style=\"font-style: italic;\">really<\/span> heavy at one point, he&#8217;s lost a lot of weight but would still be considered &#8220;fat&#8221; by a lot of guys, but that&#8217;s not stopping him &#8211; he&#8217;s having a great &#8216;ol time taking loads. What changed for him? He just decided to be a slut&#8230; He&#8217;ll take a load from just about anyone&#8230; There are plenty of guys willing to nutt in his ass (even in the Omaha), and he&#8217;s loving every minute of it&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>So there&#8217;s really no good excuse for a sucky sex life. Get your ass (or dick) out there and have fun!<\/p>\n<p>Bottom line &#8211; we&#8217;ve got some work to do&#8230; To get down the percentage of guys using condoms, and to get up the percentage of guys with lots of sex partners&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>[To be clear, the title is a bit tongue and cheek &#8211; see my comment in the comments section&#8230;] A new report is out today from the NYC Department of Health (PDF) that shows that a surprising number of New Yorkers are using condoms&#8230; Here are some of the findings: Gay men with multiple partners [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-256","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-opinion"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/256","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=256"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/256\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=256"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=256"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=256"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}