{"id":281,"date":"2008-07-26T19:05:00","date_gmt":"2008-07-26T23:05:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.rawtop.com\/blog\/?p=281"},"modified":"2008-07-26T19:05:00","modified_gmt":"2008-07-26T23:05:00","slug":"is-this-blog-getting-too-dark","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/2008-07\/is-this-blog-getting-too-dark","title":{"rendered":"Is This Blog Getting Too &quot;Dark&quot;?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It seems like there&#8217;s been a lot of discussion of bug chasing on this blog recently. <a href=\"http:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/2008\/07\/three-sides-of-stealth-breeding-story.html\">The &#8220;Neg 4 Neg&#8221; gangbang bottom taking a poz load<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/2008\/07\/bug-chaser-visiting-sf-this-week-needs.html\">the bug chaser going on a sex vacation in SF and wanting as many loads as possible<\/a>, and so on&#8230; I&#8217;m wondering whether I&#8217;ve gone too far. Not sure if I&#8217;m 100% comfortable with the public image I&#8217;m projecting. I mean it&#8217;s all happening and on one hand it&#8217;s sort of like news reporting&#8230; But there&#8217;s also an element of facilitation and eroticizing guys becoming poz and that&#8217;s where it gets to be a bit &#8220;dark&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>So I&#8217;m wondering what you guys think of it? Am I going too far? Should I step back and lighten things up a bit? Tell me what you think&#8230; The poll has answers that sorta cover the gammut, but feel free to add something under &#8220;other&#8221; or better yet &#8211; leave a comment on the post&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><script type=\"text\/javascript\" language=\"javascript\" src=\"http:\/\/s3.polldaddy.com\/p\/816559.js\"><\/script><br \/>Oh yeah &#8211; I&#8217;m not going to feel obliged to do what the poll results say, but I will definitely take them into consideration&#8230;<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><span style=\"font-style: italic;\">UPDATE:<\/span> It&#8217;s pretty clear where the poll results are going&#8230; While about 1 in 5 of you want it to go darker, the vast majority want it to stay the same and preferably lighten up a bit. What&#8217;s telling is that the &#8220;lighten up&#8221; percentage has been going up as the days drag on. In other words, the occasional readers may be put off a bit by the heaviness of the blog. The argument for staying the same is that this is my life and it won&#8217;t be all that interesting if I censor it.<\/p>\n<p>So, to that end&#8230; I&#8217;ll change <span style=\"font-style: italic;\">how<\/span> I right about things, but not so much what I write about. In other words, those of you who like it dark will need to read between the lines. I&#8217;ll put all the details in there (neg4neg gangbang, etc.), but won&#8217;t dwell so much on the risk factor. Here are a few examples&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/2008\/07\/bug-chaser-visiting-sf-this-week-needs.html\">The bug chaser visiting San Francisco wanting loads<\/a> &#8211; I&#8217;d just leave out the bug chaser part and say a bottom is on vacation wanting as many loads as possible. It would completely change the nature of the post &#8211; if you wanted to read the other related posts you could figure out the details&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>There will still be occasional updates on HIV and AIDS research &#8211; that won&#8217;t change. I may think twice about some of the stories however&#8230; For example, I&#8217;m not sure how important the &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/2008\/07\/hiv-strikes-quickly.html\">HIV Strikes Quickly<\/a>&#8221; story really was.<\/p>\n<p>The story about <a href=\"http:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/2008\/07\/three-sides-of-stealth-breeding-story.html\">three sides of a stealth breeding gangbang<\/a> &#8211; I&#8217;d do it with less detail and more as a cautionary tale (neg bottoms who take anonymous loads will wind up getting poz loads).<\/p>\n<p>The story of <a href=\"http:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/2008\/06\/thoughts-of-neg-bareback-bottom-taking.html\">what a bug chaser is thinking as he makes the decision to take all loads instead of being &#8220;neg4neg&#8221;<\/a>&#8230; That one would be done pretty much the same way. There are some things I think just need to be expressed unedited.<\/p>\n<p>When I talk about my hookups I usually just stick to the facts of what happened &#8211; so no change will be needed there&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It seems like there&#8217;s been a lot of discussion of bug chasing on this blog recently. The &#8220;Neg 4 Neg&#8221; gangbang bottom taking a poz load, the bug chaser going on a sex vacation in SF and wanting as many loads as possible, and so on&#8230; I&#8217;m wondering whether I&#8217;ve gone too far. Not sure [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-281","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-opinion"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/281","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=281"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/281\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=281"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=281"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=281"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}