{"id":287,"date":"2008-08-03T22:00:00","date_gmt":"2008-08-04T02:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.rawtop.com\/blog\/?p=287"},"modified":"2008-08-18T16:08:56","modified_gmt":"2008-08-18T20:08:56","slug":"join-me-in-telling-researchers-about-our-sex-lives","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/2008-08\/join-me-in-telling-researchers-about-our-sex-lives","title":{"rendered":"Join Me In Telling Researchers About Our Sex Lives"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve been sitting on this for a while now &#8217;cause I&#8217;ve been busy with work and lately &#8217;cause I figured I needed to be giving you guys more sex and less &#8220;stuff&#8221;&#8230; So since you got write-ups on no fewer than three hookups in the past 4 days, I figured it was time for me to take care of this&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>A few months ago I told you about <a href=\"http:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/2008\/04\/like-to-get-fucked-up-and-then-get.html\">a research study about drugs and sex<\/a> that was being done by <a href=\"http:\/\/www.chestnyc.org\/\">CHEST<\/a> which is part of Hunter College here in NYC. Well, the folks behind that study are starting a new study called &#8220;Pillow Talk&#8221; where sexually active guys login and record their sexual activity before they go to bed each night. Here&#8217;s their full blurb on the study&#8230;<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>The Study is called Pillow Talk. It is for sexually active NYC gay and bisexual men. We are really interested in learning about men&#8217;s sexual experiences. There are absolutely no judgments and this is not an intervention (i.e., we are not trying to change any behavior). We just want to hear your story!<\/p>\n<p>Men who join the study will be asked to visit our office in Chelsea, where they will participate in a 1-on-1 confidential interview and a computer-based survey. Something new we have added to the study is a &#8220;daily diary.&#8221; Men who join the study will complete a brief online-survey about their day. They will keep this &#8220;diary&#8221; for 30 days.<\/p>\n<p>There are 2 follow up appointments. We ask you to return 1-month and 4-months after joining the study. This is to get an update on you life since the last time we saw you. All told, you can earn up to $220 for full participation.<\/p>\n<p>Call <a href=\"tel:+12122067919\">212-206-7919<\/a> x 300 to screen for the study. All calls are completely confidential.<\/p>\n<p>Or email <a href=\"mailto:research@chestnyc.org?subject=rawTOP%20Referral\">research@chestnyc.org<\/a> (we can answer questions briefly via email, but will ultimately ask you to call if you want to screen for the study).<\/p>\n<p>This study is being sponsored by Hunter College. We have been doing research with the GLBT community for more than a decade.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>You may be asking &#8220;why bother&#8221;? To me there are two really good reasons. First, the $220 isn&#8217;t bad, but more importantly it&#8217;s important that researchers understand what&#8217;s going on in our lives. Honestly, the safe sex message is failing miserably these days. Personally I don&#8217;t think that&#8217;s going to change, but I feel like we need to give &#8220;thinkers&#8221; the information they need to come up with something better than &#8220;use a condom every time&#8221;. They need to understand the lives of those of us who are sexually active in order to really understand what messages have a possibility of working.<\/p>\n<p>I will always encourage guys to ditch the rubbers, fucked raw, and give and take loads.  But at the same time I have no problem helping the safe sex crowd get their act together and  get more grounded in reality.<\/p>\n<p><span>If you contact them, please <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">tell them you heard about the study from rawTOP<\/span>. If you don&#8217;t want to admit to reading this blog you can say your friend &#8220;Richard&#8221; told you about the study (Richard = Dick =&gt; I&#8217;m a top&#8230; Get it?)<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-style: italic;\">And just for the record &#8211; I do plan on signing up for this study.<\/span> It wasn&#8217;t until today when I looked closely at the study objectives and requirements that I realized I was eligible&#8230;<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><span style=\"font-style:italic;\">UPDATE 1: <\/span><\/p>\n<p>So I called a couple of days ago to inquire. They said they had about 10 minutes of questions (it took 13 minutes), and I was approved. Apparently the 30-odd guys I&#8217;ve fucked in the last 3 months qualifies me as being a big enough slut for their study&#8230; I have an appointment early next week.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not quite sure why the appointment is going to take 3 hours, but that&#8217;s how long they say it will be. It&#8217;ll be interesting to see what they do with me for 3 hours! No wonder they pay you $225 to be part of the study&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><em>UPDATE 2:<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I went in today for the initial interview it took 3 hours like they said it would. They first went over the different sex, alcohol and drug use I had had in the past 90 days (looks like I had sex with over 50 guys thanks to <a href=\"http:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/tag\/iml\">IML<\/a> and going to <a href=\"http:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/2008-06\/bred-a-hot-beefy-daddy-anon-fucks-gi-joe-montreal\">the bathhouse in Montreal<\/a>). Then we had a general discussion of sex, and then there was an hour long computer survey. So pretty straightforward, and they paid $40 for the three hours.<\/p>\n<p>Now for the next 30 days I do a daily online survey (get paid $40 if I complete all 30 days), then there&#8217;s a 4(!) hour follow up interview for which I get paid $45, and then another interview something like a month after that (another $40 I think&#8230;)<\/p>\n<p>The important part is that the people there really are really non-judgemental. It was a woman (young) who interviewed me. I could tell she&#8217;d heard it all before and had no problem with my answers (and I was reall pretty honest and frank with her)&#8230; So I can say from personal experience that you won&#8217;t have a negative experience if you go&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve been sitting on this for a while now &#8217;cause I&#8217;ve been busy with work and lately &#8217;cause I figured I needed to be giving you guys more sex and less &#8220;stuff&#8221;&#8230; So since you got write-ups on no fewer than three hookups in the past 4 days, I figured it was time for me [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[65],"tags":[66],"class_list":["post-287","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-research-studies","tag-chest-nyc"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/287","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=287"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/287\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":301,"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/287\/revisions\/301"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=287"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=287"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=287"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}