{"id":641,"date":"2009-02-11T18:47:02","date_gmt":"2009-02-11T23:47:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.rawtop.com\/blog\/?p=641"},"modified":"2009-02-11T18:47:02","modified_gmt":"2009-02-11T23:47:02","slug":"from-safe-sex-advocate-to-rawtop","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/2009-02\/from-safe-sex-advocate-to-rawtop","title":{"rendered":"From Safe Sex Advocate To rawTOP"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Just came across this&#8230; It&#8217;s a picture of my dorm room in grad school (1991 +\/-). Notice the posters on the wall&#8230;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-642\" title=\"Safe Sex posters on a dorm room wall\" src=\"http:\/\/rawtop.com\/resources\/2009\/02\/safesexposters-626x332.jpg\" alt=\"Safe Sex posters on a dorm room wall\" width=\"626\" height=\"332\" srcset=\"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2009\/02\/safesexposters-626x332.jpg 626w, https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2009\/02\/safesexposters-626x332-150x79.jpg 150w, https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2009\/02\/safesexposters-626x332-300x159.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 626px) 100vw, 626px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The funny part is when I&#8217;d fuck a guy back then I&#8217;d start with a few raw strokes and then put on a condom. Going raw helped get me hard. Looking back at that time I was way too inhibited&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>I remember one time when this hot little trainer from Manhattan Plaza Gym and I hooked up he sat on my dick raw, no questions asked. I did everything I could do to avoid cumming in his ass. Then we flipped and he fucked me bareback. He came like a half second after pulling out of my ass. I didn&#8217;t feel comfortable about it, but didn&#8217;t say anything either. The next day I gave him an earful.<\/p>\n<p>In hindsight I sorta wish I&#8217;d started fucking guys raw back then &#8211; seeing how far I could go before they&#8217;d ask for a condom. But I was too scared.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re wondering what I looked like back then, here&#8217;s some pics&#8230;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-643\" title=\"Me coming out of the water in Bermuda - 1991\" src=\"http:\/\/rawtop.com\/resources\/2009\/02\/j61-262x400.jpg\" alt=\"Me coming out of the water in Bermuda - 1991\" width=\"262\" height=\"400\" srcset=\"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2009\/02\/j61-262x400.jpg 262w, https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2009\/02\/j61-262x400-131x200.jpg 131w, https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2009\/02\/j61-262x400-196x300.jpg 196w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 262px) 100vw, 262px\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-644\" title=\"Me on the rocks by the ocean in Bermuda - 1991\" src=\"http:\/\/rawtop.com\/resources\/2009\/02\/j62-328x400.jpg\" alt=\"Me on the rocks by the ocean in Bermuda - 1991\" width=\"328\" height=\"400\" srcset=\"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2009\/02\/j62-328x400.jpg 328w, https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2009\/02\/j62-328x400-150x182.jpg 150w, https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2009\/02\/j62-328x400-246x300.jpg 246w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 328px) 100vw, 328px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Looking back I can&#8217;t believe how insecure I was in my looks. I constantly thought I needed to lose weight&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Those pics were taken by a john I met at a hustler bar who turned into a friend. He took me on vacations &#8211; paid for everything, and if we had sex I got some money out of it. But usually it was just hanging out, going to dinner or the theater. It was an interesting time in my life&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Just came across this&#8230; It&#8217;s a picture of my dorm room in grad school (1991 +\/-). Notice the posters on the wall&#8230; The funny part is when I&#8217;d fuck a guy back then I&#8217;d start with a few raw strokes and then put on a condom. Going raw helped get me hard. Looking back at [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[59],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-641","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-commentary-news"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/641","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=641"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/641\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":646,"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/641\/revisions\/646"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=641"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=641"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=641"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}