{"id":74,"date":"2007-06-14T10:25:00","date_gmt":"2007-06-14T14:25:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.rawtop.com\/blog\/?p=74"},"modified":"2007-06-14T10:25:00","modified_gmt":"2007-06-14T14:25:00","slug":"confessions-of-a-bareback-top-is-fiction","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/2007-06\/confessions-of-a-bareback-top-is-fiction","title":{"rendered":""Confessions of a Bareback Top" is Fiction"},"content":{"rendered":"

“Confessions of a Bareback Top<\/a>” is a blog by a guy who says he advertises himself as a “safe sex top” but then gets the bottoms he fucks to go raw and take his load. I’m guessing most of you have read the blog at one point or another… I think some of what he says is probably true, and it can definitely be an entertaining read, but I’m now absolutely convinced some of the big details that make him so controversial<\/a> are completely made up…<\/p>\n

Let’s take his latest post<\/a>… He talks about hooking up with a “kid” off Craigslist, doctoring the condom and fucking the kid raw when the kid thinks he’s got a condom on, and then cumming in the kid’s ass. Not only does he call his trick a “kid”, but he insinuates that he might be a virgin – it’s all in there to make people feel more strongly (one way or the other) when reading the story – which does make for a good read…<\/p>\n

But what gives ‘Confessions’ away is the details of how things went when he bit a hole in the condom… First off, have you ever tried to bite a hole in the tip of a condom while having sex without the other person noticing? I have (years ago – not in that headspace anymore). It’s not easy and the one or two times I tried I was unsuccessful – the condom did just fine. If he really did write up how that went it would be pretty funny, ’cause he’d keep biting and biting and nothing would be happening and the kid would be like “fuck me already”…<\/p>\n

Next he says (more than once) that the condom stayed on the shaft of his dick and just the head was uncovered. That’s just pure bullshit. I have had condoms fail on me before (intentionally and accidentally – again years ago – don’t touch the things anymore), and after one or two strokes the condom is all bunched up at the base of my dick like a bit messy plastic bag.<\/p>\n

If you don’t believe me – try it yourself… Just try to discretely bite a hole in a condom and see how long it takes you to actually puncture the rubber. Then when you do finally get a small hole in there (use a knife or razor blade when you give up trying to bite a hole in it), put it over your hard dick and masturbate a little and you’ll see what happens. But realize ‘Confessions’ has said in the past he’s got a big dick, and the kid’s hole was tight, and that he was fucking the kid pretty hard. I know<\/i> there’s no way in hell to keep a condom on the shaft of a big dick that’s pounding a tight hole…<\/p>\n

IMHO, ‘Confessions’ not only didn’t do what he said, but he’s never doctored a condom in his life. If he had, he’d know it just doesn’t work the way he described…<\/p>\n

Some of what ‘Confessions’ says is true. He’s fucked a couple of guys I’ve fucked (at least he says he has) and in one particular case, he described the guy’s personality pretty perfectly. But I think he likes to embellish some of the details pretty significantly… When he said he barebacked the husband of an A-list celebrity<\/a> all sorts of people tried to guess who the guy was<\/a>. He told me some of the comments got pretty close, and even told me who the person was. I’m tempted to spill the beans, but it’s really irrelevant – ’cause it’s all fiction… He may have actually fucked some guy in the bathroom of a mostly straight club, and the guy might have had a passing resemblance to the husband of a big name actress, but seriously…<\/p>\n

Bottom line, Confession’s sex life is just too spectacular, and now there are serious holes in some of the critical details. I think there are elements of truth to it… I think plenty<\/i> of “safe sex” guys will forego condoms in the heat of the moment, and there are definitely tops out there that will cum in a guy’s ass when the bottom doesn’t want it. I know, I’ve been there… Hell, I’ve even taken off a condom half way through having sex and then cum in the guy’s ass… [Again, not in that headspace anymore – so don’t have a tizzy, plus I knew I was neg (and still am).] I’ve even barebacked “monogamous” boyfriends, but you don’t have notable sex every week or two. Real sex lives are more boring than that – even if you’re a bit of a slut…<\/p>\n

I’m not saying you shouldn’t read Confessions (he’ll stay in my blogroll), I’m just saying you should take a lot of what he says with a grain of salt, ’cause chances what you’re reading is at least partially fiction…<\/p>\n

Incidentally, from a professional standpoint, what he’s done (intentionally or inadvertently) is brilliant Internet marketing – but that’s the subject for another post…<\/p>\n

UPDATE: <\/span><\/p>\n

I’ve just become confident in a hunch I’ve had for a while… That Confessions is the same guy who for years kept literally begging me to fuck him and cum in his ass. I even went to hookup with him<\/a> once – though I think he gave me the wrong address and phone number (or he’s not as attractive as his pics)… Sorta puts a whole other light on the guy… Not a bad light, just a different light…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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