{"id":89,"date":"2007-08-23T15:09:00","date_gmt":"2007-08-23T19:09:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.rawtop.com\/blog\/?p=89"},"modified":"2007-08-23T15:09:00","modified_gmt":"2007-08-23T19:09:00","slug":"think-i-scared-off-the-guy-from-the-eagle","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/2007-08\/think-i-scared-off-the-guy-from-the-eagle","title":{"rendered":"Think I scared off the guy from the Eagle"},"content":{"rendered":"

The other day I mentioned<\/a> that I almost went home with a guy when I was at the Eagle on Saturday. We e-mailed back and forth since then, but I don’t think it’s going to happen…<\/p>\n

We chatted back and forth, and then I asked…<\/p>\n

A couple of questions…<\/p>\n

Are you poz, neg, or not sure?
Do you fuck raw, wrapped, or whatever?<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

To which he replied…<\/p>\n

i am negative..what about you?<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

At this point I was thinking things looked pretty good. He definitely made it clear he’d give me whatever I wanted when we were at the bar, and now he’s saying he’s neg and not answering the question about raw\/wrapped. I figured he was the type who just let the tops call the shots. As long as he was into the top, they could have what they wanted…<\/p>\n

I then asked him what he got into, since we did meet in a leather bar (of sorts – there aren’t any good leather bars in NY anymore), and he said…<\/p>\n

I don’t know what your concept about that particular leather bar is…but there’s a lot of people normal, crazy and too crazy sometimes…I can define myself like a normal personal…I like sex but I am not into any pain…toys..etc…sorry if i disappoint you…just sex…and I always use condom…even though I don’t like it…I basicaly like normal guys and you looked like that to me…what about you, what are you into?<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

At this point he said he used condoms, but didn’t like them. I’m thinking that’s straddling the fence – leaving it open to go raw… So I responded…<\/p>\n

Condoms make me go soft, so I don’t use them. Sounds like that’s a problem… Otherwise, I go from vanilla fucking to light bondage, hoods, etc. But frankly, the bondage stuff doesn’t happen very often…<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

And I haven’t heard from him for the past two days – so I think I’ve lost him. Not sure if it was the fact that I got into bondage, or the fact that I wanted to go raw (or a combination)…<\/p>\n

Too bad. He was really cute and incredibly fuckable. I really wanted him to take my load…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

The other day I mentioned that I almost went home with a guy when I was at the Eagle on Saturday. We e-mailed back and forth since then, but I don’t think it’s going to happen… We chatted back and forth, and then I asked… A couple of questions… Are you poz, neg, or not […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[28],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-89","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-prospects"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/89","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=89"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/89\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=89"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=89"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rawtop.com\/sex\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=89"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}