Letter from an adoring fan…
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29 June 2008 | 6 Comments
This is just too much…
hi there
i pop onto your site here and there every blue moon –
i was in a relationship for 13 years, so i barebacked with my partner at the time, never goin eleswhere for fear of disease and plus i loved my partner…and only wanted to be with my parter.
in reading your blog in more depth – i am disgusted at your actions – gay people like yourself, are the ones who give us moralistic fags a bad name. “they” all think we are like you, and we are not all like you….
you have a boyfriend whom you love? you couldnt possibly… you only love yourself – how could you put yourself, as well as others at risk with HIV/AIDS as well as countless other stds? these random hook ups to dump your load into as many asses as u can, until u get some disease, is horrid. people like you should be locked away or castrated. you will fuck all kinds before you realise or get notifed that you have AIDS and at the same time infect all these other people who are just as retarded as u….sick like u…
either your boyfriend is a fool cuz you dont seem like a brad pitt kinda lookin guy, so im not sure what or why he stays with you…how could u love someone or be with someone and are constantly goin out to fuck someone else… bareback at that..im all for bareback in a relationship… after testing etc…
you are only shortening your time when you get AIDS and you will at some point.. your parents should be horrified that this is what they raise… prepare your mum for an AIDS death/funeral… this bullshit that if you top u cant get or vice versa is just that… bullshit – when people like u come down with the diseases that is iminent… it is well deserved – when people like u catch these deadly diseases, it is warranted and i have no pity – rather laugh at the stupidity…
im waiting for the day, and you will… where you write, “i have contracted AIDS” i will post a huge LOL.. on your page and tell u that you deserve it… you are a disgrace to fags and to the human race –
RIP
What do you say to someone like that? I’ll give it a quick shot…
Today is gay day. The point of gay day is to say you don’t care what straights think – that you’re proud of who you are and believe that others in your community should be accepted just as they are. The opinions of straight people (including my mother) are not how I determine my self worth.
There is no need to live up to heterosexual values or morals. There’s nothing wrong with examining them and learning from them, but that should be the limit. Hell, even the straight community has “swingers”. They’re really no different than those of us in the gay community who enjoy sex with random people.
The other parts of what he says are just so far out there there’s really nothing that can be said about them. He’s so far from the truth it’s just not funny.
Let the haters hate. Print the constructive stuff since the hate is negative and only sucks energy from a good debate.
I think it’s important to let people see how ugly the hate can be and how irrational it is…
Makes the rest of us look pretty sane! 😉
Well either someone pissed and shit in his Cheerios today or he is just an ignorant closeted guy.
After 15 years with my partner we still love each other exclusively but have sex with others…that is all it is – purely sex and if we play bare or with condoms it does not affect our relationship one bit.
We have many friends around the world that do the exact same thing and the ones that pass judgment like him are usually ignorant, straight or just your classic asshole that can never be happy (bet he is single too).
@sfverscumboy – EXACTLY…
IMHO – there are no long-term successful gay relationships that are monogamous. Well, if you count sexless as monogamous, there might be some. But the overwhelming majority of long-term gay relationships are open ones where you fuck on the side and come home for the relationship.
Even straight relationships tend to be a bit that way – though it is different when you’ve got a woman in the mix and rug rats running around…
This guy is an idiot, but he has an opinion and he is entitiled to it. Just because he has voiced his opinion, doesn’t mean the rest of us have to listen to or acknowledge him. I am a bareback bottom, I love to be fucked by a big cock and feel spunk in my ass. I state a preference for neg tops when I hook-up online or whatever. But I’m not an idiot, I know that guys can be mistaken or simply lying about their HIV status. This is why I get tested every 3 months and take PEP’s after every hook-up. It seems that the gay community is as judgemental, as those groups that judge us. Some of us engage in everything from racism to judgements based on appearance. I have witnessed this, as I am sure we all have. But my decision to bareback is personal and only affects me, my partner (also a barebacker) and the tops I choose to have sex with. I assume the people I have sex with are aware of the risks, because I’m aware of the risks and I accept them. While I hope, I never have to deal with serious STD like HIV, I accept that it may eventually happen. But then I might eventually get hit by a bus too, I accept that everytime I cross the road.
@trys_sperm_bank – PEP after every encounter is not a good idea… That’s a month of meds that make you puke and feel aweful – not a good thing on so many levels…