This morning a guy stopped by to have sex pretty early. He was my bf's type (big and beefy – I'd label him a muscle cub, but didn't have a beard or anything), not so much my type, but he had contacted me 'cause he really gets into deepthroating and wanted to choke on my dick.

He said he was also up for getting fucked. His profile said "safe sex only", but we really didn't discuss how things would go. My profile gives a lot of hints that I want to bareback (without actually saying it in so many words). But apparently he didn't get the drift of what I was trying to communicate…

He gets here and he's a big guy, but attractive (nice face, muscular, but still pretty fat). It's clear from the onset that he's the type of guy who likes to be told what to do – verbally… My bf and I are pretty quiet when we're hooking up – we keep the chatter to the minimum and just take what we want and only tell the bottom what to do when it's necessary – not for every little thing. So we get him in the bedroom and start taking off our clothes, he sucks me a little, then I get on the bed lay down and have him blow me. I knew that was what he was here for… He gets me nice and hard and starts throwing his head onto my dick trying to get it as deep in his throat as possible. It was sorta cool – the guy was definitely an excellent cocksucker.

Meanwhile my bf is behind him, feeling up his dick and his hole. He then put some Gun Oil on his dick and shoved it up the guy's ass. The guy really starts groaning at that point – he's gagging on my dick and has another cock in his ass… My bf pulls out after a minute and the guy says "A condom would be nice". My bf and I look at each other wondering where that came from and so my bf reaches over gets a condom and puts it on and fucks him some more, but then pulls out and goes into the bathroom to clean up.

We then both sit on the bed and have him go back and forth between our dicks, but he keeps asking questions – like "what do you guys like to do?" and shit like that… I told him I like to fuck but didn't mention that what I really wanted to do was cum in his ass. I go soft just at the mention of condoms, so by this point he's not able to get it hard by sucking it, so he's mostly working on my bf.

I get up, go around behind him and feel his hole. I didn't feel like rimming him, but just feeling him up got me hard enough that I could fuck. I slap my cock a few times on the top of his butt and then rub it on his hole. He pushes back making it clear he was up for getting fucked. I get some lube, and push in (raw of course). It's a nice hole and actually I felt like I might be able to cum right after I got into him – his hole was rubbing my dick just right. But it was a little bit of an awkward position, so I didn't cum. Again he mentions that "a condom would be nice" but I tell him I go soft with condoms. Once again, the mention of condoms put me off my game and I had a hard time getting back into him. I then had him stand up and bend over to suck my bf (he had been on his knees with me kneeling behind him). I got in him again and fucked him a bit, but it just wasn't happening for me.

At this point he wanted to get on the bed with his head hanging over the side and have us bang his mouth. We did it for a bit and while I was face fucking him, my bf raised up his legs, took off his underwear that he had put back on, and fucked him raw. But I was going soft by this point – I knew I wasn't going to get a load in his ass, so didn't have a lot of motivation… My bf pulled out and got on top of him and used his face as a hole. I told my bf to cum, he asked the guy if he swallowed and the guy said yes, so my bf fucked his face and dumped a load down his throat.

My bf needed to get ready for a meeting, so he left and I played with the guy. I told him I'd cum with a blow job fewer than 5 times in my life and he said he wanted to try and make me cum. I figured I didn't have anything to lose – as long as he knew the odds, I might as well get the blowjob. He worked really hard on my shaft while I played with his hole (he had put his underwear on yet again and I had to pull them down a bit to get to his hole). I got hard enough and at times it that I felt like I might cum, but I never could actually cum despite the fact that he tried, and tried and tried to get me to cum (but I just don't cum that way).

He felt really bad about not being able to get me to cum – I think it hit at his core since he sees himself as a primo cocksucker. When he did finally give up, we laid around for a couple of minutes and chatted. Turns out he's bisexual – been in relationships with guys in the past, but currently married to a woman who understands that he's hooking up with guys on the side. He even offered to rim my hole for me – said straight guys who eat cunt do it better than gay guys. Not so sure about that one and I wasn't into getting my hole eaten out…

Nice guy, but since I can't cum in his ass, don't know that we'll hookup with him again unless my bf wants to…