The other day I mentioned that I almost went home with a guy when I was at the Eagle on Saturday. We e-mailed back and forth since then, but I don’t think it’s going to happen…

We chatted back and forth, and then I asked…

A couple of questions…

Are you poz, neg, or not sure?
Do you fuck raw, wrapped, or whatever?

To which he replied…

i am negative..what about you?

At this point I was thinking things looked pretty good. He definitely made it clear he’d give me whatever I wanted when we were at the bar, and now he’s saying he’s neg and not answering the question about raw/wrapped. I figured he was the type who just let the tops call the shots. As long as he was into the top, they could have what they wanted…

I then asked him what he got into, since we did meet in a leather bar (of sorts – there aren’t any good leather bars in NY anymore), and he said…

I don’t know what your concept about that particular leather bar is…but there’s a lot of people normal, crazy and too crazy sometimes…I can define myself like a normal personal…I like sex but I am not into any pain…toys..etc…sorry if i disappoint you…just sex…and I always use condom…even though I don’t like it…I basicaly like normal guys and you looked like that to me…what about you, what are you into?

At this point he said he used condoms, but didn’t like them. I’m thinking that’s straddling the fence – leaving it open to go raw… So I responded…

Condoms make me go soft, so I don’t use them. Sounds like that’s a problem… Otherwise, I go from vanilla fucking to light bondage, hoods, etc. But frankly, the bondage stuff doesn’t happen very often…

And I haven’t heard from him for the past two days – so I think I’ve lost him. Not sure if it was the fact that I got into bondage, or the fact that I wanted to go raw (or a combination)…

Too bad. He was really cute and incredibly fuckable. I really wanted him to take my load…