A Hot 22 y.o. Wants To Be My Boy
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1 August 2010 | 13 Comments
I’ve got a bit of an odd situation… This hot 22 y.o. jock wants to be my ‘boy’ – as in a live-in, dedicated relationship where he’s my primary fuck hole. He’s not in New York, I’ve never hooked up with him, but he’s coming to New York later this month for a few months and will probably stay here permanently…
Here’s the good parts…
- He’s HOT:
- 22 y.o.
- Great body (see pic)
- VERY attractive
- He’s very submissive and wants to be owned
- He likes daddies and bears
- He’s be interested in puppy play
- He’ll drink piss
- He understands/accepts that I’ll fuck other bottoms, not just him, and that there’s a risk of STDs, etc.
- He understands/accepts that my bf comes first and is willing to do a 3way arrangement where he’s be a boy for both of us
- He’s bright, professional, and has a lot going for him other than his looks and submissiveness
But there are things that make me wonder…
- He’s only ever been fucked by 4 guys, and has never had cum in his ass – I’ll be the first person to breed him
- He’s only ever had sex (of any sort) with 20-30 guys (he seems to mostly like oral)
- He’s never met me and has a hard time explaining why he’s into me other than I’m his type and he’s been reading my blog for years
- I can tell he really would prefer a 1-on-1 monogamous relationship with a dom top / master – not a 3way open relationship
Bottom line, I think he’s built me up in his mind and when he really gets to know me he’ll realize I don’t match is fantasy and that will be the end of things. While a good dom top isn’t easy to find, if anyone can get exactly what he wants it’s someone like him – young, hot and focused. I honestly think he’ll realize New York is so big that there are tops who exactly match what he’s looking for and he’ll “trade up”.
Still, there’s a decent chance he’s for real and I’m not going to pass up the chance that something like this can work out. I would be totally hot to take him in full puppy gear to some place like MAL or IML or even just out to the Eagle for drinks. It would also be nice to have a hot ass to fuck and seed whenever I want. And while we don’t really have space in our apartment for a 3rd person right now, that’ll change next year when we move into our new place.
I’ve talked it over with my bf, since having a boy would be a major change in our relationship – He’s also skeptical, but like me sorta hopeful and willing to try it out.
So what do people think? Anyone have experience with a similar relationship?
UPDATE: The boy flaked on me. It’s been about a week and a half since I heard from him. He just sorta disappeared. Maybe he got cold feet. Maybe it was all a fantasy. Guess I’ll never know. Oh well. Woulda been nice, but it’s clearly not going to happen.
This is COMPLETELY normal. If male-male couples are going to expect to stay together for the long run, they need to make agreements that work for them. Every couple is different, and the agreements vary.
I know at least a dozen long-term couples who have a third, lower-status leatherboy/submissive as part of an extended family. It works great for all concerned.
Sounds good, but I don’t get the sense you and your boyfreind are ready for
it either. Try it….see what happens…Good luck! And btw…I think I’d like to hook up with you too….soon. NYC area. You are so my type.
if you don’t take him, i will
I have seen this guy on dudesnude.com and his posting seems to be in line with what you say he’s wanting. The dudesnude posting says he’s 25, but who knows which is genuine. I have trained several slaves/servants over the years. Both for myself and for others. I do get the sense that this is a genuine calling for him, but that his inexperience keeps him from really understanding that calling. It seems to me he’s ready to be shown the ropes. I wouldn’t assume that you won’t live up to his expectations. It may be that he doesn’t live up to yours. He is very pretty and definitely eager, but perhaps there just won’t be the “click” when you meet/meat. Either way, it will be FUN finding out!
It sounds like star worship.
If he is willing to accept your terms, you both can be happy.
I think he is looking for something in his life and you were the tartget that he set as his goal.
Meet and talk with him, have him meet your BF and even the three of you have sex if all things click.
This might be the begining of something or a boy becomes a man.
We’ve had three long term triumvirate type relationships and they can be very rewarding. The first met another guy that he liked and asked if it was okay if he went on a date. Then he asked if he could see him more often. Finally we all agreed that he should pursue that relationship. They got married and had a great relationship. The second got split geographically due to work transfers and just naturally dissolved. Our current is just entering the second year and it’s been great.
The main thing that I don’t think most people understand is that there are three very different relationships here. My partner of 13+ years have one. He and our third have one, and I have one with our third. Each are very different as far as what we each get from the different dynamics. It can be touchy if two are disagreeing, and the other can feel lost and awkward in that situation, but adults can handle that. I can honestly say that this can be an incredibly rewarding relationship and I think you should pursue it.
I’ve heard people say that no way can really love multiple people. I wholeheartedly disagree. I think the human heart has the capacity. Just like a parent can love their partner as well as their kids and love them deeply, I think that a person with an open mind will see they have plenty of love to share.
Now, when both partners are begging for the same load, that’s a whole different story and you have to pick which one get’s this one. 😉
sorry he flaked out on you… he sounded too good to be true to me
I think it’s crazy to have a relationship where one person is lower status to two others who are the true boyfriends. I don’t see why anyone involved would want it.
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