Professionalism & Porn Stars
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11 February 2012 | 18 Comments
Today a well-known porn studio did a shoot at my place. You’ll understand in a bit why I’m not going to give details. It was a big crew – like 8 porn stars (I didn’t participate other than being there). The professionalism among them was completely uneven. Most of them were polite and courteous and professional, but there was one who was just a huge messy queen…
The mess showed up 2 hours late and at one point went outside (in view of all my neighbors) with no shirt on. When I said “why did you do that?” He said “I don’t care (what people think)”. My response was, “Well, I care. I have to live here.” He was clearly high – sorta bouncing off the walls and saying stupid shit. He asked me how he looked, then said a little prayer in front of me (about him staying clean) and insisted I say the “Amen”.
Then a few hours later one of the porn stars I’ve known for a while says “believe it or not, he’s higher than when he arrived.” This, despite the producer telling everyone in advance that drugs weren’t allowed. Then a half hour later I see he’s passed out in one of the rooms…
I mean that’s pretty hot to walk in on – sorta perfect how he managed to have his shorts pulled down – like he hoped someone would come along and fuck him (some more). If he weren’t such a mess I might have gone up and felt him up. But when other people are paying guys to perform I’m sorta stand-offish with porn stars – they’re not mine during that time – they belong to the producer. Plus, he was totally out and even snoring… Given how erratic he was acting I preferred him asleep. Our place can be pretty dangerous if someone’s not being careful.
When he was woken up his mood changed yet again – he got all angry and irritable. Then a few minutes later he had mellowed a bit, but was super anxious to leave (which was fine by me). All in all he was sort of a sad character. Mind you, the video of him getting fucked is going to be incredible. He’s hot and can take an incredibly hard pounding (thanks in part to him being plastered out of his mind). But his life is just a huge disaster from the looks of it.
Then there was another really well known porn star bottom who showed up and promptly had to spend a lot of time cleaning out. Shit happens (so to speak), and in all other respects I really liked the guy – seemed genuine, well-balanced, was really nice to be around, but the bottoms were told it was going to be difficult to clean out – you’d think someone of his caliber and who’s generally really professional would do a bit more to be clean. But he was so good in other respects that I’ll give him the benefit of the doubt – maybe he was just having a bad day.
Most of the guys (like my friend) were completely prepared and put their all into it. They seemed like they’d be a pleasure to work with.
There are times I think it would be fun to produce porn. But then there are moments like today when the one bad apple in the barrel makes me wonder. The problem porn star reminds me of other porn stars I know. There’s one (who I’ve fucked) a friend told me about the other day who’s deals and uses drugs. Apparently he’s progressed in his drug addiction to the point where he has paranoid spells – it’s just a matter of time before he comes to some tragic end (sad). Then there’s one who worked for me at one point who was a nice, personable guy but the more I got to know him the more I realized he lived in a fantasy world where he thought he could do what he wanted and somehow people would want to take care of him.
I’m not saying all porn stars are messy, but there are enough messy porn stars that I can’t imagine getting full-time into production – I don’t “suffer fools” very well. Porn production would just be an exercise in frustration. Now, the occasional amateur shoot – that could be hot – but even then I’ll encounter flakes, but at least I won’t be paying them…
UPDATE:
Right after I wrote this I saw the news that Whitney Houston died. People (hard) drugs lead to big problems. Yes, you might accomplish something and people may know you – and part of your creativity may come from the drugs. But ultimately they’re just not worth it. I hate to sound like Barbara Bush Nancy Reagan – but seriously, “Just Say No”.
It was Nancy Reagan with the “just say no” anti-drug campaign. And I completely agree with you – they’re bad news.
I just did my first amateur shoot a week ago and it was a very liberating experience for me. Made it with a friend who is a porn regular and, in every way, professional. I can’t begin to imagine how bad it could get working with somebody who’s high.
I enjoy reading your blog!
Interesting story, but why the hell do you care if your neighbors see a shirtless guy near your place? For someone who likes to portray himself as so above it all, that little excerpt had me laughing pretty hard.
That makes sense…
Thanks for sharing this story. People on another blog have guessed who it is…he’s a great bottom btw.
So if the neighbors are that nosy, bitchy and snooping is it really a good idea to be filming porn there?
What is the studio sees this post can they or would they retaliate against you?
Totally understand why it would be tempting to plug his hole, finding him in that inviting position. Too bad he is so fucked-up with drugs.
Yeah, I’ve pretty much reached the same conclusion wrt the drugs. A lot of people seem to think teeth can manage them and yeah they can be fun for a bit, but the long term fallout just is not worth it. The sex is never as hot as you think it’s going to be (even if you’re a porn star).
I’ve pretty much gone stone cold sober myself and have figured out not only how much hotter the action is now, but also how much better my partners are in bed. I generally won’t even consider playing with guys who are high at all any more. Even more so because I’m now working in an industry where drug use of any kind is cause for dismissal.
Sweet ass. Was this a bareback shoot? Any idea when we can see this released?
Great site.
bet that queen knows how to ride a hard on
Thanks for sharing this experience. It is a sad reflection of how some gay men have little or no regard for other guys’ property &etc. It is, alas, a situation that is repeated all over the world at private parties rather than porn shoots.
I think it pretty safe to assert that we, all of us, like the idea of hosting a fuck party at our own place, but soon realise that with hosting comes a whole sheaf of issues that fall out of doing so.
The lesson I’ve drawn from your posting is that I don’t think I’d want a porn shoot to be done in my own home where I have less control of events than perhaps I would if it were just a private party.
I can also comprehend better why so many fuck flicks take place in a sterile hotel bedroom rather than the genuinely homely atmosphere of someone’s residence. Post production the crew can simply depart the scene and no-one’s much the wiser (management, other hotel guests and so forth).
So what movie was the shot from?
Man, with all you stories, and non stop musc sex life, you the guy I wann be. Always great to read your stuff. But I wanna know, did you seed any these pornstars, after all, they were in your house
Looks like the video is available now, I clicked on one of your links to the side and recognized the guy (and apt thats being renovated) He looks better from the back 🙂
Cute guy! Love to walk in and ram my 9 iron up his sexy ass!
Sweet ass. Can you tell us the title of the video ?
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