How To Get A Condom To Slip Off While Fucking
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15 November 2013 | 13 Comments
I was thinking of posting this over on the porn blog, but it’s not really bareback porn…
Back when I used to use condoms I often had a problem with them slipping down my dick. I remember one time back in the early 90s this guy picked me up in a bar one night and we went back to his place on the Lower East Side. Anyway, when I pulled out the condom was just barely hanging onto the head of my dick. Back then I was all about safe sex, so I was rather mortified, but the guy I was fucking didn’t seem to care.
As time went on and I started experimenting with bareback and I sorta liked the fact that the condom would nearly slide off my dick – much like these pics where Tim Kruger (from Tim Tales) fucks Esteban del Toro. Tim starts with the condom rolled most of the way down his dick. Remember – if your goal is to have the condom slip off, there’s no point in rolling it all the way down your dick – you just need it on well enough that the bottom is happy with what he sees.
Then has he’s fucking the condom starts slipping off his dick…
And then by the time he’s done, the bottom is in a zone and oblivious to the fact that the condom is nearly completely off the top’s cock…
So how do you make it so the condom will slip off your dick? It’s really simple actually… Lube your dick really well before putting on the condom. If your dick is slick the condom will have a hard time staying put – it’ll start moving around and down your dick. Putting a little lube in the tip of the condom before you put it on your dick helps in this regard – the more lube you have between the condom and your dick the easier it will slip off.
If the condom doesn’t slip off fast enough you can always reach down and jack your dick a little and help it move down your dick.
And when you pull out after cumming, remember to act surprised that the condom slipped off. Hey, accidents happen…
If you’re a bottom who’s top wants to wear a condom – just take charge of putting the condom. Lube up your top’s dick and put a little lube in the condom “to make it feel better” before putting on the condom. Putting a magnum sized condom on a guy with a regular dick can be a compliment to him and help the situation as well. Then you can always reach around to “check the status of the condom” – to make sure it works it’s way down the top’s dick.
This kind of stealth fucking is really not a great idea. If a guy wants to be fucked with a condom, it’s really wrong to “accidentally” let the condom slip off. Plenty of guys like raw fucking (myself included stud); there’s no need to do this to someone who wants safer sex. In many places, doing this could get one in legal trouble. Don’t encourage this – unless as a roleplay scenario or fantasy it’s just wrong.
I agree with NJGuy above. It’s not like there aren’t plenty of guys out there willing to take it raw. Why do it in this kind of deceptive and irresponsible way?
In some States, it’s not the condom (or undetectable viral load) that counts. Despite the BS propoganda promoted by AIDS Inc. poz people must legally disclose or face jail in many jurisdictions. Just the way it is.
Has Grindr completely ruined the conquest of sex?… Lennon37 misses the point… There’s a psychological aspect and game to sex. Think of the dance of flirting. Perhaps it has completely vanished in our modern Grindr world of “wanna fuck?” RawTop knows that most guys are pigs and want it raw. They will hem and haw about “safe only” in their profile, but are conflicted about the desires in their head. RawTop has been burned too many times by bossy bottoms and time wasters, so he avoids the safe only, no raw people, unless they approach him and are clear about what they’re in for. But if you are willing to be patient, you might be able to start with a condom, then push the boundaries of what the bottom wants. A bottom who goes from absolute safe only, to accidental raw, to conflicted raw, to full raw whore– is hotter than an upfront “wanna fuck raw” guy on Grindr.
So Dave, what you’re saying is that if I hook up with someone after telling them I only want to use condoms, I should expect that person to subversively try and fuck me without a condom because he know that deep down, I was actually conflicted about the whole thing?? I won’t lie–raw feels so much better, even (or especially?) for the bottom. But what feels even better than a good, bare fuck is not going through a period of anxiety after hooking up, wondering if I might test positive in a few weeks.
Yes, flirting is exciting. There is that unknown element of “Is this going to happen?” But it sounds like what you’re saying, unless I’m interpreting it wrong, is that a big component of what makes sex hot for you is whether you can manipulate your partner, who previously had already expressed his stance on safety, to not only change that stance, but also come to believe that it was what he wanted all along.
On my own blog I often (like just now) post about the excitement of managing to get my naked fuckstick into a “safe only” bottom, so I totally know where Dave is coming from. There is nothing like the pleasure of knowing you got a dude so turned on that he wants you in him with nothing between you but spit and precum. But if a guy asks me, especially in the act, to put on a condom, I’m either gonna put it on and keep it on, or just not fuck him. Even if I already got it in him raw for a bit and he asks me to take it out and rubber up. I fuckin love to fuck, and do it raw almost every time, and mostly would rather go without than turn my sweet sensitive dick into a plastic battering ram. But the idea that anyone should take advantage of the trust that a dude puts in you as a bottom and deceive him about what’s happening is just too much to me. A bottom puts himself into a very vulnerable position every time he lets another dude, a bigger dude, a horny dude have his way with him, and I believe there are lines you don’t cross. There’s seduction and there’s depravity, I guess, in my mind. When a guy is crystal clear, I believe in respecting his wishes. When he’s not… well, does he just want what I want?
I’m friggin’ stunned by these comments. You’ve fooled yourself into thinking that this is a valid argument. In full disclosure, this married man (w/ a husband of 20 years) visits this site to jerk the fuck off to all the hot stories that are posted. But it’s a fantasy for me. If I have asked you to use a condom and you knowingly sabotaged that request, I’d rip your fucking face off. Consciously trying to expose someone to HIV is no different than trying to expose someone to malaria or polio or SARS. Two (or ten) men BB-ing is fine with me if all sides are down with what’s going on. But disrespecting someone’s request to stay negative is despicable. We’re turning into those little monsters the religious zealots and right wing lunatics say we are. Show some fucking integrity!
Hey rawTOP,
I’ve read your blog for a while now, so I know where your stances are with HIV, barebacking, and all that. I do believe firmly that what people do sexually with their partners generally is no business of mine, as long as both are consenting adults. That is what I have an issue with here. There isn’t exactly consent to barebacking when you stealthily slip off the condom that was requested by the bottom.
I’m not talking about HIV transmission either. I’m solely talking about respecting the wishes of your sexual partner. If I say I want you (rhetorically) to use a condom, and you agree, then that does not give you freedom to try and weasel out of that agreement. If I come over and say that I don’t want to PnP, and you agree, then that does not give you permission to try and slip something into my drink without my prior knowledge. And HIV aside, there are a number of other STDs that you can transmit without fully knowing you are doing so. Whether you’re on PreP or are undetectable or are sure that you are negative, you can still transmit G or C or syph.
Bottom line, I feel like this violates the inherent trust that should exist between two people who agree to have sex with each other. Even strangers deserve some modicum of trust from their respective partners, but this entry and the comments from Dave lead me to believe that you do not deserve that trust from your sex partners.
I don’t think RawTop gets it and I’ve lost the respect I’ve had for him. Not that he’ll care. Stealthing is akin to rape. It doesn’t matter you know you’re negative, or on PReP, or undetectable. If your partner, hookup, etc. wants to be fucked with a condom, and you don’t like that, move on. We get that you’re the top who cares about his own pleasure first. You should keep doing that with guys who want to get fucked raw and who say so. Lots of guys enjoy getting fucked raw, some are even bug chasers. In NYC there is no shortage of them. Stealthing is immoral, and might even be illegal. If some guy ever catches you doing this you might get your lights punched out, arrested or even sued. Having shared your predilection in this blog, you’ll hardly have a defense.
Beneath the surface this post seems to be more about anti social behavior than it is about barebacking.