Neg Bottom Asks My Status AFTER I Fuck Him…
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19 September 2010 | 33 Comments
Last Thursday I was supposed to hookup with this hot bottom who was in from out of town. He was staying at a hotel in midtown, so the plan was to go fuck him and then head over to the poz party at Vlada a few blocks away. But I didn’t know (or forgot) that he could only hookup early in the evening. When I pushed the hookup to 8pm so it would be easy to just go over to Vlada for the party, he didn’t get back to me until 7 and by then I just couldn’t get down there before he had to leave to go see his play.
So then I was scrambling to find another bottom to fuck. This guy hit me up on A4A and my notes on him just said that when we talked before he had reiterated that he was neg. This time there were zero questions about status. The emails were short, sweet and to the point. By his 3rd email to me he had given me his address and said come over.
The issue was that he wasn’t anywhere near Hell’s Kitchen and the poz party… I had to do a transfer to get to him. I headed out, and tried to transfer at Times Square to another train to get to him. I waited and waited and noticed there were a lot of people on the platform waiting. When one of the trains on the other tracks turned around and went back the way it was coming from I knew something was up. I was already late, so I figured I’d take a cab the rest of the way. Problem was it was raining lightly and there were no cabs available. So I wound up walking 20+ blocks in light rain to get to him.
By the time I got there I was hot, sweaty and wet. I’m sure I looked like a complete mess. He lived in a VERY nice building and had a great apartment. When he offered a drink I took it ’cause I sorta just needed a short break to get in a different frame of mind. We chatted briefly and then headed to the bedroom.
I should stop and say the guy wasn’t completely my type, but there was something about him I really liked. He seemed a bit awkward and innocent and it was appealing… When we stripped down and kissed a little he liked what he saw and he got very compliant basically telling me he’d do whatever I wanted. I told him to suck my dick and he gave me a great blowjob – felt really good. But what I really wanted was his neg ass…
After the blowjob I told him to get on the bed and give me his ass. He got on his back and threw his legs up. This is when I saw what I really liked… He had this wonderfully smooth ass. There was just something incredibly fuckable about it. I rimmed him for a while and got it all wet, then I spit on my dick and tried to get in him.
He needed lube and handed me some. I noticed there were condoms next to the lube. I didn’t take one, he didn’t ask me to use one. I lubed up, and pushed in. I had to take it slow and couldn’t go very deep at first. After a while I wanted to change positions so I started rolling him over trying to ease him into being on his belly (thought it might be a bit too anonymous for him).
When I got him on his belly he started bucking around and then wanted to do doggy. It was a little frustrating. I came close to cumming, but never could. He was squirming around too much and I was getting overheated (it was warm and humid in the apartment and I was sweating like a pig).
There came this point where he asked if I liked him well enough to cum. I said ‘yes’ (since that was my intention). We fucked a bit more and when I slowed down (’cause I was wearing out), he thought I’d cum in his ass and pulled off my dick. Then I saw that he wasn’t all that clean and headed off to the bathroom to clean up. I knew that was sorta the end of it for me – I don’t do well when bottoms’ aren’t clean.
When I went back to the bedroom he seemed nervous. He said something like “Wow, that was the longest and most intense sex I’ve ever had. It was a first for me on many levels.” I was a little surprised. For starters we had only been having sex for 20 minutes at most. I figured it may have been the first time he was barebacked and possibly the first time (he thought) he took a load. Then he paused a second and hesitantly asked something like “So the question is… Well, you’re neg, right?” I told him what he wanted to hear and didn’t give details (like my last test was over 8 months ago).
After that he was surprised I wasn’t getting dressed and leaving, so I took the hint, dressed and left…
My goal now is to give him what he thought he got – a load deep in his ass… Hopefully I’ll hook up with him again this week. I really want to get him addicted to taking loads… 😉
You are disgusting, trying to poz someone, you are no worst than a zombie from Resident Evil feeding on a living being and spreading the T virus.
I meant, you are no better than a zombie spreading its infection.
Not so smart of you to post this online for the world to see…you are asking to be criminally charged! No way to lie your way out of it bro after posting it on the web! You are seriously sucking stupid!
Hmm… Congrats..? Poor dude…
Guys, he didn’t say that he was poz, so he might legally be OK, but it is rather sketchy of him to not be upfront about the whole thing.
Wow, 5 dumb comments in a row. First comparing him to an imaginary monster from a good video game/bad movie. Then assuming he’s poz, even though, if you’ve been reading this blog, you know that he’s been testing negative consistently. Finally, while I can’t say I’m entirely comfortable with someone passing HIV on knowingly to an unwitting partner, doesn’t the bottom share at least the same amount, if not more, responsibility for asking about HIV status beforehand? I hate to sound like a republican, but shouldn’t we expect a certain amount of responsibility on both partners’ ends? Sheesh.
I agree that the bottom shares in the responsibility but if you read this blog you’ll see the phrase “what they want to hear” quite often. I understand the political stance this blogger takes and in theory I can respect that but in practice I just can’t. I don’t think it does anyone any good to get infected but I also don’t think it does anyone any good to be treated or compared to a leper/zombie. seriously, though, don’t treat people so callously.
I’ve noticed several times you’ve made funny real estate comments– As though we should be surprised when barebackers live in nice Brownstones or luxury apartments. It’s almost like you’re suggesting surprise that someone who is career oriented, successful in business, or maybe just inherited a large trust fund– would be into BB. My pet theory is that they’re all house sitting or domestic staff!
rawTop was completely in the right, there’s absolutely nothing he did wrong. as a neg bb btm (tested 6 wks ago) i love to take loads from men whose status i’m intentionally unclear of. thats part of whats so hot, not only do u get a big wet load in ur ass, but one of these men’s actually gonna fucking own you when he blows that cum deep in you… he’s gonna spread his charged seed into some pig btm and turn him into the real pig he’s meant to be, he’s giving the gift of life by allowing boys like me to become the cumdump im born to be. we all know this, and yet we play games with ourselves as to how we’re not total bareback pigs, when in reality, id take cum from just about anyone and deep down i cant wait to convert
Responsibility for safer sex is the responsibility of both parties. If you want to reduce the risk of getting HIV – treat everyone as is they are possibly poz, insist on using condoms and manage your risks.
Asking /after/ the fact is almost as good as giving consent IMO (even if the law views this differently.)
Rawtop didn’t try and stealth breed the guy, he didn’t put a condom off then slip it off mid-fuck, and he didn’t try to deceive the guy into thinking he was a safe-sex top.
What people really need to do, is start communicating – Too many people fall victim to the assumption of
bottom: “Oh, the top isn’t putting on a condom, he must be neg”
top: “Oh, the bottom isn’t insisting on a condom, he must be poz/not care”
For the bottom to throw up his hands in the air and play ‘poor me! I’m a victim ‘ after the fact is bull-shit. You made your choices, deal with the consequences. If you are going around and hooking up BB with strangers from the net – there is a probability that the person is poz and doesn’t even know. Take responsibility for your own actions and stop pointing fingers.
If you haven’t been tested in 8 months you could have theoretically been infected with HIV for 10 months and 29 days. In this time you say you have been having unprotected sex.
Therefore you don’t really know your status and you’re probably infecting other guys….disgusting and illegal
Assface! Assuming rawtop knows his shit (and I believe he does), as long as his last test was negative he is not in legal trouble. Seriously people, I’ve barebacked once in my entire life and I’m defending rawtop. Yes, it would be totally dick of him to bareback a negative bottom IF rawtop knew he was positive AND the bottom asked his status AND rawtop lied. But that’s not how it happened. It takes two people to fuck, and if one of those people isn’t taking all the necessary precautions to stay negative, it’s not the other guy’s responsibility to make up for it.
For the life of me, I do not understand how people can visit a site like this and preach about morals and ethics when it comes to hiv. It makes me think they are frustrated and wish they had the courage to embrace bb fully. Let’s be frank and honest. If you are into bb, you should assume you are going to end up poz sooner or later. If you do, get on the meds and get your viral load down so that you don’t infect others. And keep fucking. A viral load of < 20 means you are sexually non-infectious. Don't tell anybody anything. These are not first dates where you plan to start a relationship. These are cumdumps who quite frankly deserve what they get. If they don't want hiv, then they should not bb. It's really as simple as that. Your health is your responsibility. Don't ask, don't tell.
I do have to say, although there shouldn’t be any singling out of responsibility, you should let him know how long it’s been since your last test – it would be really unfortunate if he assumed he was safe and/or avoided tests from what you told him (thinking u were tested recently)
o for fuck’s sake! how many times – in how many venues – do we have to have these stupid arguments?
raw = higher risk. period. don’t want higher risk? use condoms.
inflicting your morality on someone who is honest about his bb sex life is bullshit. if you don’t wanna read about bb go somewhere else.
Rawtop: “I told him what he wanted to hear and didn’t give details (like my last test was over 8 months ago).”
That’s stupid. Maybe he’ll decide to get PEP if he’s concerned. Or maybe not. But why not just be straight up and tell the truth instead of what you decide he really wants to hear.
Everyone knows that rawtop is positive…the guy has been all over the place, back and all over the place again. There is no way he is negative. Furthermore, he use to be a member on bug share and on that forum he admitted NUMEROUS times he was “charging twinks up”…those were his EXACT words! You all might be fooled by it but I’m not. I have no issues with barebacking as long as you are honest about your status, which in turn gives the other guy all the info he needs to make an informed decision…but to lie about it is not only wrong it’s illegal!
And what’s up with all this nigger porn…WHITE POWER BITCH ALL THE WAY!!! It amazes me how many charged up guys have lost their taste and just fuck anything, of course niggers are niggers so it’s easy to get laid by a nigger. All of you just fucking disgust me!
Wow Dayvidpriddy, I’m a white man that love men of all colors. You definitely give gay men a bad name especially when gays and lesbian are being discriminated by society. It’s obvious you are just pure trash from the south and you call yourself gay, very pathetic
Who cares about color. Cock is cock.
My doctor told me not too long ago that bottoms can pass hiv to tops much easier than I had been led to believe. I even started asking poz tops if they have ever bottomed. Most said no. So that leads me to believe my doctor is correct. That also leads me to believe that tops who are repeatedly fucking poz bottoms are probably poz.
There are other factors that can also increase the risk to the top, such as being uncut, or if they have Herpes – even if they are not having an active outbreak, there could be micro-tears in the skin that can increase the risk of transmission.
I guess raw top doesn’t like his blog anymore since he hasn’t updated in almost a month. Maybe the cough has set in.
@rawTOP – Have you ever been a bottom? If so did you go rawdog and what made you change to a top?
Enough is enough. I have fwd. this website and your contact information to the NYPD with a brief commentary explaining what I’ve read. I think you’re going to be charged.
“There are no legal issues if the last test was neg.”
This is inaccurate. If you are aware there is a high degree of possibility you may be infected, e.g. through repeated unprotected exposure, the onus is on you to disclose that fact.
I asked a guy 3 x cause he told me he was curious, he told me what i wanted to hear (neg) and i blew him and then he told me have a nice life and to promise no one saw him come in my place.
I got very sick
1. i did oral
2. i was lied to before he even pulled his jeans down.
im p issed
@ anonomous ~~ u do realise that because raw top has this site and publishes his personal activities publicly anyone who contacts him for sex knows that its a risk. Therefore they forsake any and all legal recourse for undesired outcomes from people on this site right? Frankly i would advise rawtop to sue u for accusations without proper evidence, discrimination and definmation of character due to sexuality, and mischift of data. Since its not illegal for on person to incriminate themselves….
@ everyone else… why are people reading this blog if they arnt into it? Like do i need to beg for an appoligy now for not just being gay… But for some fuck up reason being turned on by the fact of poz guys fucking me… is it nessisary for me to need to feel like more shit cuz people cant accept me for who i am???
I agree with rawtop,
if you bareback you must assume you’re going to end up poz sooner or later, period.
It happened to me that way, i don’t say “someone ‘gave’ me hiv” no, i say “i got hiv”.
Back when i was barebacking i knew the risk i was taking, however i think your partner should know your status but now i’ve got a queation, “what if a neg top and i talk about it and decide to bb, then he becomes poz, what if he says he didn’t knew i was poz and he sue me?”
I also was going to comment on the ‘dirty’ bottom…
What the hell?
Haven’t the GOOD bottoms understanded that you must be very clean and neat for your top???
So disguisting, you can go online and get all you need to clean yourself properly before sex, nothing is better than sucking your partner’s cock out of your clean and tight little hole…
Hey Rawtop, i understand how hot you are but if i was you i woulnd’t fuck a dirty bottom again… unless we’re talking about dirty blood wich is not the case here my friend… just a point of view 🙂
This shows why you SHOULDN’T get tested. A POZ result carries legal responsibilities, whereas, not KNOWING you are POZ doesn’t.
it is totally the bottoms responsibility not the tops!!! im all bottom so I know well its my responsibility to make men use condems or accept any diseases taking raw loads
so many unholy sanctimonious bigot comments all stigamtizing hiv.