“Confessions of a Bareback Top” is a blog by a guy who says he advertises himself as a “safe sex top” but then gets the bottoms he fucks to go raw and take his load. I’m guessing most of you have read the blog at one point or another… I think some of what he says is probably true, and it can definitely be an entertaining read, but I’m now absolutely convinced some of the big details that make him so controversial are completely made up…

Let’s take his latest post… He talks about hooking up with a “kid” off Craigslist, doctoring the condom and fucking the kid raw when the kid thinks he’s got a condom on, and then cumming in the kid’s ass. Not only does he call his trick a “kid”, but he insinuates that he might be a virgin – it’s all in there to make people feel more strongly (one way or the other) when reading the story – which does make for a good read…

But what gives ‘Confessions’ away is the details of how things went when he bit a hole in the condom… First off, have you ever tried to bite a hole in the tip of a condom while having sex without the other person noticing? I have (years ago – not in that headspace anymore). It’s not easy and the one or two times I tried I was unsuccessful – the condom did just fine. If he really did write up how that went it would be pretty funny, ’cause he’d keep biting and biting and nothing would be happening and the kid would be like “fuck me already”…

Next he says (more than once) that the condom stayed on the shaft of his dick and just the head was uncovered. That’s just pure bullshit. I have had condoms fail on me before (intentionally and accidentally – again years ago – don’t touch the things anymore), and after one or two strokes the condom is all bunched up at the base of my dick like a bit messy plastic bag.

If you don’t believe me – try it yourself… Just try to discretely bite a hole in a condom and see how long it takes you to actually puncture the rubber. Then when you do finally get a small hole in there (use a knife or razor blade when you give up trying to bite a hole in it), put it over your hard dick and masturbate a little and you’ll see what happens. But realize ‘Confessions’ has said in the past he’s got a big dick, and the kid’s hole was tight, and that he was fucking the kid pretty hard. I know there’s no way in hell to keep a condom on the shaft of a big dick that’s pounding a tight hole…

IMHO, ‘Confessions’ not only didn’t do what he said, but he’s never doctored a condom in his life. If he had, he’d know it just doesn’t work the way he described…

Some of what ‘Confessions’ says is true. He’s fucked a couple of guys I’ve fucked (at least he says he has) and in one particular case, he described the guy’s personality pretty perfectly. But I think he likes to embellish some of the details pretty significantly… When he said he barebacked the husband of an A-list celebrity all sorts of people tried to guess who the guy was. He told me some of the comments got pretty close, and even told me who the person was. I’m tempted to spill the beans, but it’s really irrelevant – ’cause it’s all fiction… He may have actually fucked some guy in the bathroom of a mostly straight club, and the guy might have had a passing resemblance to the husband of a big name actress, but seriously…

Bottom line, Confession’s sex life is just too spectacular, and now there are serious holes in some of the critical details. I think there are elements of truth to it… I think plenty of “safe sex” guys will forego condoms in the heat of the moment, and there are definitely tops out there that will cum in a guy’s ass when the bottom doesn’t want it. I know, I’ve been there… Hell, I’ve even taken off a condom half way through having sex and then cum in the guy’s ass… [Again, not in that headspace anymore – so don’t have a tizzy, plus I knew I was neg (and still am).] I’ve even barebacked “monogamous” boyfriends, but you don’t have notable sex every week or two. Real sex lives are more boring than that – even if you’re a bit of a slut…

I’m not saying you shouldn’t read Confessions (he’ll stay in my blogroll), I’m just saying you should take a lot of what he says with a grain of salt, ’cause chances what you’re reading is at least partially fiction…

Incidentally, from a professional standpoint, what he’s done (intentionally or inadvertently) is brilliant Internet marketing – but that’s the subject for another post…

UPDATE:

I’ve just become confident in a hunch I’ve had for a while… That Confessions is the same guy who for years kept literally begging me to fuck him and cum in his ass. I even went to hookup with him once – though I think he gave me the wrong address and phone number (or he’s not as attractive as his pics)… Sorta puts a whole other light on the guy… Not a bad light, just a different light…

Never thought Ask.com would provide so much fodder for this blog, but they’re latest commercial is all about “Chicks with Swords”.

Nothing like a major company alluding to chicks with dicks… Guess it’s a nod to all the people doing searches for porn…

Ask.com relaunced today with a different look and feel. I did a search for ‘bareback‘ and thought the 2nd “sponsored listing” was pretty funny…

Buy bareback direct from sellers and save?!?!? The only people who would be selling bareback are escorts… Hmmm…

On the plus side, my blog is the #2 feed for the term ‘bareback‘ when you search in their blog section.

Both Ask and Google rank ‘Confessions of a Bareback Top’ highly which is weird since he hasn’t had a posting in over 3 months. I was more psyched to see I had gotten into the top blogs for ‘bareback’ on Google a few days ago, but it looks like I’ve been knocked out of that for the moment (have to work on that)…

Just started a story section on the site with what I think are good stories I’ve found in various places over the years. Since I haven’t been fucking as much as I’d like lately, hopefully it will compensate for the lack of things to read here…

If you’ve got a story you want to have me put up, just e-mail it to me – rawtop@yahoo.com. It can be fact or fiction, the only requirement is that someone’s gets cum in their ass… If you’re interested in blogging, but don’t want to suffer the same fate as ‘Confessions‘ or ‘Binity Bang‘, then the cover of ‘fiction’ and the mix of stories from different people could be a good way for you to put your experiences out there without your friends figuring out it’s you…

Anyone else watching The Ultimate Fighter on Spike TV? Damn that’s a hot show… You’re not going to watch another show with as many hot, shirtless guys… If you haven’t seen it, it’s a reality TV show about guys who are into “ultimate fighting” – a no holes barred fighting league where guys literally beat the shit out of each other. It makes boxing, wrestling, and martial arts look tame…

I know this might be a bit sick, but I totally get hard thinking about fucking the guys that lose. I mean, they go into the ring willing to get beat up, and when they lose they tend to be emotional messes (not to mention bloody and bruised). Most of them are hot to start with, but there’s just something incredibly vulnerable about them at that point – in a sexual way… I’d love to find one face down on a bed taking loads after one of those fights…

It’s all fantasy. I don’t think I’m capable of fighting myself, and I usually don’t relate well to thugs – though there have been a few exceptions – one of which was the hottest fuck(s) of my life, but that’s another story…

I’ve gotten a few e-mails wondering what’s up with me since I haven’t posted anything in a really long time. Well, I’m still here, but believe it or not I haven’t fucked anyone in a month and a half (44 days to be exact).

There are a couple of reasons for the inactivity. Without going into too much detail (“nothing personal…”) I’m self employed and while that means I can hookup in the middle of the day when I’m not busy, it also means that when I am busy I can be completely swamped – and I’ve definitely been swamped. The nervous energy of being worried about being behind with work has sorta killed my drive to seed holes (believe it or not).

The other reason is because I had a call from the doctor saying that when I was tested for STDs in January that I tested positive for chlamydia, which is one of those things you can have and not know it, but even when the call came I hadn’t fucked anyone in over a week so that only really slowed me down for a week or so (I took my pills and had to wait a week).

The weird part was that they didn’t call me for 4 weeks (the results are supposed to come back in two weeks). To me that’s just lame. Who knows how long I had it, but I told some of the guys I fucked and the Brazilian told me he came back completely neg, so apparently I didn’t have it back then. Between him and the test there were 6 hookups (1 2 3 4 5 6) with 5 guys. I’m guessing it was the guy who likes anonymous, blindfolded gangbangs, just ’cause that’s the easiest way to get it, but who knows…

But that’s life… Coulda gotten chlamydia from a blowjob too, so it’s not like I’m going to feel bad about it or anything…

Nevertheless, it’s been a month or so since I got past the week when I wasn’t supposed to have sex, and I still haven’t had sex – so work really has a lot to do with it.

I’ve also had some occasional light pain in my left testicle since some time around the beginning of the year. I thought it might be epididymitis caused by the chlamydia, but that’s supposed to be really painful and what I have isn’t painful much at all. And if the Brazilian didn’t get anything from me then it’s probably unrelated and couldn’t be something that’s caused by something I didn’t have at the start of the year. I’ve seen the doctor about it once when it got a little worse a couple weeks ago. Since then it seems to be calming down a bit, so I’m not going to worry about it…

Things are starting to calm down work-wise, so I promise to start up my sex life again… Trust me, I miss seeding ass…