2013 was a decent year for me sexually, but once again I didn’t get to the 100 loads given goal that I always want to achieve – I only gave 55 loads. But let me back up a little and paint a bigger picture…

I had topped guys on 75 occasions last year. An “occasion” can be anything from a proper 1-on-1 hookup, to going to a sex party, to fucking a guy in the bathroom at a bar. That’s actually the 2nd best ever year for me (since I started keeping track in 2006). 2008 was the only year I did better – I topped guys on 89 occasions that year.

In those 75 occasions I fucked 79 guys I’d never fucked before (a new record – in 2008 the number was only 67). As I mentioned I gave 55 loads. Part of the gap between 75 and 55 is fucks in places like The Eagle where I’m drunk and the position isn’t really right for me to cum. But beyond that there were more times this year that I couldn’t cum than I’d like. Of the 55 loads, 30 were in asses that I hadn’t cum in before.

For 2014 I still want to hit my 100 load given goal, though I’m not sure how likely it will be to happen. I’ve got a lot of programming to do for BBBH.com – the new bareback hookup site I’m building. When I’m programming I tend to get lost in code, gain weight, and don’t have enough sex. So we’ll see.

Another goal for 2014 is to go to more sex parties, bathhouses, etc. In other words, I want to do more group sex in 2014. I’d like to go to a sex party every week, but I think two a month is a more realistic goal. The number of guys I get my dick in really goes up at sex parties, I mean it’s not hard to fuck 10+ guys at a party. If I went to 25 parties, that’s 250 guys 😉

So how did 2013 go for you, and what are your sexual goals for 2014?

Load 2013-55

I’m not sure I’m up for hooking up today (New Year’s Eve), but I had a really good fuck session a couple days ago with this guy in the neighborhood who’s been hitting me up for a while. Usually I want guys to unlock their pics, but when he hit me up the other day his pics weren’t unlocked, but I was pretty confident he’d be sufficiently hot, so I didn’t even ask for him to unlock.

He had to walk something like 20 minutes in cold pouring rain to get here and when he arrived I was really pleasantly surprised. I knew he was early 40s, but he was cute – that wasn’t something I was expecting. There I was unshaved, in dumpy clothes just having a chill Sunday and he arrived looking really great in these really incredible lace-up boots.

Anyway, the boots had to come off since they were wet and when we went to the bedroom and stipped down he was as hot as I had remembered.  What I didn’t expect was this really great uncut dick with loose foreskin.

Anyway, I forget who sucked who. I may have sucked him since he seemed to be getting hard and I needed a little time. Then I had him get on the bed so I could rim him. He had a nice hole and it got me hard pretty quickly. So I lubed up my dick and started fucking him.

As I pushed in I could tell he was pretty tight. Later I learned it had been a few weeks since he’d gotten fucked. His hole felt good. His legs were a bit too long for me to comfortably fuck him in doggy position, so I pushed him onto his belly and fucked away.

I fucked for a while, and started getting a little winded. I could feel my orgasm coming but right when it seemed like it was at it’s peak there didn’t seem to be any ejaculation. I wasn’t quite sure what to think – had I cum? I told him I wasn’t sure if I had cum or not. I mean it felt like a pretty intense orgasm, but the cum shot seemed to be missing. He said “yeah, I read that that happens to you sometime”. (He’s a reader of the blog).

We laid there for a second and the focus turned to his cock. He seemed to really want to fuck me. We had talked prior to the hookup about him jacking off and pushing in as he came. In preparation for that I had cleaned out a little, but I wasn’t all that clean. He really wanted to fuck me and he tried to just start fucking me, but I stopped him. After all I had just seen the colo-rectal surgeon a couple days before and she said my fissure wasn’t completely healed yet.

So he backed off and just jacked off, then as he got close he sorta did 1 inch strokes of just the head of his cock in my hole and then as he came he pushed in just enough so his load got past my sphincter. He seemed to have a pretty intense orgasm. After nearly 2 months of not getting cum in my ass it felt good to take a load. (And I didn’t even have to get fucked to get the load).

I typically get hard after taking a load and this time was no exception. I pushed him back on his belly and got my dick back in his ass. This time the load came much more easily and I blew a nice big load up his hole.

We then had a bit of quiet time. And I learned a bit about him. Curiously he used to go out to Fire Island pretty regularly but got tired of the meaningless sex. That struck me as funny since we’d essentially just had a pump-n-dump. We talked a bit, I sucked his great uncut cock, felched his hole, etc. The cool part about his cock was that the foreskin was so loose the end of the opening in the foreskin would sometimes look like it was on the side of his dick and that he had skin completely over the head. It really was a beautiful dick.

I tried to get hard again, but wasn’t all that successful until he was telling me about this time he went to a sex party and saw some hot, innocent looking twink taking loads. That got me going and I pushed his legs up and got back in him while he kept telling the story. I knew I didn’t have enough in me to cum again, so it was sorta relaxed fucking. Then he tried to cum again – did more of the little micro fucking of my hole, but unfortunately I didn’t get another load.

Eventually things wrapped up and he was on his way. It wound up being a fairly long fuck session for me, but given that he had to walk 20 minutes back and forth in cold, hard rain it made sense to give him a longer fuck.

Load 2013-54

Just had a hookup with this young hot cub. I think it’s hot when I get to fuck guys who are less than half my age and he was that with a couple years to spare. Usually I don’t hookup with cubs. My dick is a little unpredictable with stocky guys, but this guy was really short and just “stocky”, not really “fat”, so I went for it. And I was pleasantly surprised when he showed up. I’d actually put him in the “muscle cub” category – though he wasn’t overly muscular – but he was definitely solid with muscle.

Anyway, one of the things that stood out with the hookup was that he was really detached. He really didn’t talk much at all. He almost never looked me in the eye and when he did he diverted his gaze really quickly. And when he showed up and we got naked he didn’t really go down on me or anything. In fact I started things off by giving him a blowjob. He had a nice cock and he got hard quickly, but he was a total bottom (according to his profile), so it wasn’t about his dick.

After blowing him briefly I told him I wanted to rim him. When I tell most guys that they get on all fours. Instead he got on his back and put his legs up. I didn’t really care what position he was in – I just dove in on his hole. He had a nice, slightly hairy hole. It got me hard pretty quickly, at which point I lubed up my dick and his ass.

I pushed in slowly, and he had no trouble taking me. I then fucked him with his legs up in a missionary position for a little bit. He had been jacking his dick a bit when I was rimming him. That sorta stopped as I fucked him – which was good ’cause I didn’t want him to blow his load.

I then moved him onto his side and fucked him that way. At that point his hole was making my dick feel really good. I was pretty confident I’d be able to cum with him, but I had jacked off the day before so I wasn’t 100% certain I was going to be able to cum.

Then I rolled him some more so he was now completely on his belly. Things still felt really good and it wasn’t long  before I could feel my orgasm building and then I was blowing my load up his ass. As I came thing tingling sensation shot through my body. I think it’s happened before, but it’s been a long long time. It was sorta hot to sort of have a full-body orgasm.

We laid there for a bit and he still wasn’t really talking. I tried to start a little conversation. He answered my questions, but didn’t really help keep things going. Then his phone was going off so he got up, did a little texting, and then got dressed and was on his way.

I’m still not sure what to think of his “distance”. I mean I just don’t know his story. His profile says he’s neg and it’s the say after Christmas. Maybe Christmas didn’t go so well for him and he’s consoling himself by taking loads. Who knows?

He lives in the neighborhood, so hopefully his distance didn’t mean he wasn’t really into me. ‘Cause I’d sorta like to fuck him again in the not-too-distant future.

Load 2013-53

Yesterday I hooked up with a bottom who already had three loads in him, and then today (oddly) I hooked up with another bottom who also had 3 loads in him. But the two hookups were extremely different.

The bottom yesterday wasn’t really what I was expecting. When someone tells you that they have three loads in their ass and can you be there by 6pm, you sorta expect the guy to be an anonymous cumdump. I figured the guy wanted a quickie pump-n-dump that might take 10 or 15 min, max. And it wasn’t really clear whether it had to be over by 6 or not.

He gave me the address, etc and then didn’t respond for ages when I asked his phone number. I was almost out the door to see someone else when he got back to me, so I went back to plans with him. I had to drive over to him since public transit from here to there is far more complicated than it should be. He lives in a busy neighborhood and it took a while to find parking. I was a little worried there wouldn’t be much time if we had to be done by 6pm.

I finally got there and he opens the door and I’m struck by two things. He had roughly the body I was expecting but he was tall – I wasn’t expecting that at all. And the second thing was that the apartment was a mess. Stuff was everywhere. But whatever – I’m just there to fuck a hole.

Another thing that was a little unexpected was he told me his name and asked what mine was. That was a little unexpected for a cumdump who just wants loads and doesn’t care who they’re from. The other thing that was a little unexpected was that he looked a bit like a white boy from Greenwich CT who grew up with a silver spoon in his mouth. There was just this air about him. He actually reminded me of a slutty version of the boyfriend of one of my bf’s good friends. Refined, good body, and sort of aspiring to be around money.

Anyway, we go into the bedroom and I take off my clothes (his were already off), and curiously he felt up my dick, but had no interest in giving me a blowjob. That’s fine with me, blowjobs don’t really do it for me anyway. He got on all fours on the bed and I just started eating out his hole. It tasted like lube which was a bit distracting, but he did have a nice ass. He was pretty much smooth all over. There was some stubble on his chest which indicated that he shaves off his body hair. His hole seemed well fucked, but still pretty pristine. Once the lube was mostly gone I could just barely taste cum.

I was putting a fair amount of spit on his hole. That combined with the residual lube and cum made him pretty slick, so I didn’t need to lube up before fucking him. He had wanted me to wear my PA. My PA wasn’t stretched enough for the really big ring, so I was wearing a 0 gauge curved barbell. He had never been fucked with a PA and wanted to feel it. He was saying he sorta hoped I’d go rough and sorta tear up his hole. I made sure he felt it as it was going in, and as I fucked him I didn’t make my strokes short – I’d pull out enough that the ball on the bottom of my cock would go into his sphincter.

Once I was in I could definitely feel the cum in his ass. His hole was really wonderfully silky. And with a smooth but the whole sensation was really pretty excellent. I’m a little unpredictable with taller guys. Usually things don’t work with them. But he was in this weird position – on his belly with one leg cocked up to the side. So I was sorta riding his ass cheek as I fucked him. I think the end result was that I wasn’t going particularly deep into him, but it also meant that my PA was constantly going in an out of his sphincter – he had to feel that quite a bit.

The room was freezing but that worked out well for me since I didn’t come close to overheating at all. We fucked for a few minutes and then I felt my orgasm cumming and I unloaded what I think was a huge load in his ass. I had like a 2 or 3 day load in me and had planned on hooking up the day before but in the middle of the day iBlastInside threatened me with a lawsuit if I put a site on BBBH.com (I just purchased it and I’ll be putting a hookup site on on it). Anyway, iBi had sorta put me in a weird mood and I didn’t get around to fucking. So all day yesterday I was about ready to blow and by the time I gave him the load I’m sure it was a big one.

I fucked him a little bit briefly after cumming. Figured I’d extend the fuck a little. But then I pulled out and felched some cum that had worked it’s way out of his ass. I still wasn’t sure if we had to be done by 6, so I sorta sat on the bed with my dick near his face sorta hinting I’d like him to clean off my cock. But he’s really not into oral apparently and didn’t pick up no the hint. He seemed to want to spend more time with me, so I laid down next to him. Usually I’m the one that gets behind the bottom in a spoon position, but this time the positions were reversed – it felt a little weird, but nice. I asked if he needed to be done by 6 and he said ‘no’ – that he said 6 because he had to be done by 7:30. That changed things.

We laid there for maybe 10 or 15 min chatting and sorta having a quiet moment. From talking to him he’s not like what you expect from a cumdump. He sorta wants to make a connection with the top. I could tell he wanted me to stay around and maybe get a second wind and fuck him some more. But I finally decided to just go. I think he thought that meant I didn’t have a good time. But that wasn’t the case at all. He’s got a good ass and I can totally see fucking him again.

Then there was today’s cumdump who also had three loads in him. He hit me up and he was less than a 10 min walk away so when he gave me his address I told him I’d be over in 10. I arrive and he answers the door completely naked. Nice body. He’s a pretty hot guy. The apartment had the shades drawn and was pretty dark. He told me to sit on the couch while he went into the bathroom. He wasn’t in there long and then he got on all fours on the bed.

I got down and rimmed him, but he was in a position where his hole was hard to get to. I tried to push his back down so his ass would be more out and easier to get to, but he resisted my push. It took a while, but I finally got him in a position where I could rim him. His hole tasted soapy, which was disappointing ’cause I was hoping for cummy.

I think we both just wanted it to be a quickie pump-n-dump, so as soon as I was hard I stood up and went to fuck him. But then he tells me I can’t get on the bed or it’ll break. On top of that he was positioned in a way where it was hard to get into his ass because he wasn’t close enough to the edge of the bed. I tried moving him, but again, he resisted. I was starting to get frustrated. And when I get frustrated my dick doesn’t stay hard.

I did finally get into him, and even moved him on on belly and got on the bed. It didn’t fall apart, but it felt like it was about to. It was then I noticed that he had a blindfold on – which was a little late since he’d seen me come in the door. His legs were spread and the position didn’t feel quite right so I tried to move them together. And he resisted that too! UGH!

Then he wanted to move over to the couch. But again he was in this position where his hole was too low. I tried picking him up so his legs were more together and his hole was higher. Of course he resisted. I tried moving him to the corner of the couch where I could have gotten in more easily. He resisted that too. When I did get in him a little he was saying things like “do you have a condom on or are you fucking me raw?” He was playing out a fantasy in his head. At one point he just pulled forward fast so my dick came out of him. I really wasn’t in the mood for his antics. Then he said he wanted to ride my cock. But I refused because my dick was already going soft and that would have just completely been the end of it.

Then he had us move back to the bed. A few more attempts there but I finally just gave up. I told him it wasn’t working for me and I went and got dressed as quickly as I could. He starts talking about how his buddy was coming back, etc. Which made no sense. I’m pretty sure he was high as a kite. I really hate drug addicts. It’s sorta sad to see so many cute guys so fucked up. It’s a waste.

So two fucks – one pretty good, the other pretty awful. I guess that’s just how it goes.

Load 2013-51 & 2013-52

Had two very different hookups last week. The first one was with the black thug that I fucked at the beginning of the year. He was back in town and had been hitting me up wanting my load. I get the sense that we come from very different backgrounds and perspectives. The connection is completely in the sex and in breeding his ass. He was hungry for it and I needed to get off.

It was a pretty routine hookup. He arrived, we stripped down, he started sucking my dick but as usual the blow job wasn’t really doing it for me (I just had a chubby – not a full hardon), so I had him get on all fours on the bed and I rimmed him to get fully hard. I then fucked him on his belly and it didn’t take all that long before I blew a load up his ass. I had taken a Cialis, so I just kept fucking him slowly until my dick finally went down (which took a while). He bills himself as vers, so I was sort of expecting him to jack off, but he didn’t feel the need. Then we chatted a bit, and then he got dressed and took off. The only slightly weird part of it was that he wanted moisturizer when he getting dressed. (Is that a black thing? I think I’ve had some other black guys ask me for moisturizer as well.)

The other guy is someone who’s been hitting me up for a while now – he looks Middle Eastern (comes from a place that is on the edge of the Middle East). I was a little worried about the hookup. He said he’d been parTying (bad sign), and even joked about having me pick up needles for him (I had to stop by a pharmacy on the way there). Guys who slam are generally pretty mess and not the greatest fucks, but I was in his neighborhood and figured “what the hell?”.

I get there and he’s probably 25 or 30 pounds heavier than in his pictures. My dick doesn’t really do well with stocky guys and he was definitely rather cubbish. I mean cubs are cute and he was rather adorable when he was sucking my dick and looking up at me, but that was sorta of strike two. Even though he had plenty of warning on when I’d be there, he wasn’t ready and he left me alone in his bedroom for a while when I got there. I just spent the time jacking my dick. It was a little odd, but I wouldn’t go as far as saying it was strike three or anything.

He was definitely an eager and enthusiastic bottom. In that way he was a great fuck. But despite his wanting my load and his having parTied, he had issues taking my dick. He kept wanting me to slow down or pull out for a break. That much was sorta typical for someone who’s high unfortunately. I kept trying to cum, but wasn’t having any luck. Tried all sorts of different positions, but nothing seemed to get my orgasm to cum.

Towards the end he got into a little HIV fetish talk. He’s neg and on PrEP but has a fantasy of getting pozzed. That sort of thing might have gotten me over the edge if it had happened earlier in the hookup, but at that point my dick was starting to be uncooperative. We fucked a lot, but I finally just had to say sorry for not cumming, but I need to go.

But then later he texted me saying all sorts of cum was pouring out of his ass. Apparently I had cum in him quite a bit and didn’t realize it. It happens. I just wish I had known I was cumming.

This week I had horrible luck hooking up on Monday. I was going in and out of being horny – with generally isn’t a very good sign for me. When I was horny, no one was interested. When I wasn’t horny guys were hitting me up. In fact two different REALLY hot young jock bottoms wanted me to fuck them, but it happened at a time when I wasn’t really in the mood and they wanted me to travel to them. My mind was willing, but my dick and libido just weren’t cooperating. I wound up just jacking off and collapsing in front of the couch to watch TV.

We’ll see if I get any action today. I’m hoping I get a simple, decent fuck in.

Loads 2013-49 & 2013-50

Well, I finally managed to get to 50 loads given this year. If I fuck someone every other day until the end of the year I could get to 60… Hmmm… Probably not realistic, but I’ll rack up a few more before the end of the year.

Anyway – the two guys I fucked they had one thing in common – they’d both been hitting me up for a while, but things had just never worked out in the past. That, and taking my load, are about the only things they had in common.

The guy from yesterday was your classic 40-something piggy bottom. I get the sense that over the years pretty much everyone has fucked him (though that’s just my gut impression – it may not be the case). The funny part was that despite his considerable experience he was sorta nervous when he showed up. He had verbal diarrhea. At one point I just wanted to shove a jockstrap in his mouth or something to shut him up. It’s a fine line between the right amount of verbal and too much. I mean there are a lot of factors – what’s being said, how it’s being said, the volume it’s being said at, and most importantly, who’s listening to it and what their preferences are.

Honestly the hookup with him didn’t go all that well. On top of being a bit too verbal he was also a bit controlling. He kept resisting the positions I’d put him in. Or he’d wiggle around when I was fucking him and then when I’d start to get in a groove he’d move. It was a little frustrating.

I had actually given up on cumming and was fucking him doggy – figuring I’d just fuck until my dick wasn’t into it anymore when all of a sudden the sensations started feeling right. I was rubbing up against something in his ass that felt good. So I just stayed in that groove for a while and let it develop. I can’t remember the last time I came in doggy position (there have been times, but the last one was probably at least a couple years ago now). Anyway, he didn’t move (too much) and the sensations started building and then I blew a rather considerable load in his ass.

We then laid there and had some quiet time. He cleaned off my cock and then buried his face in my arm pit and just laid there. Finally he was pretty much completely quiet. We did talk a little – enough to realize that his initial talkativeness was largely just him being nervous.

Today’s bottom was very different. At least on the outside he was a very clean cut and professional Asian guy – probably late 20s to “30ish”. He was the kind of guy that if you saw him on the street you’d never guess he likes taking loads. Never in a million years.

He started by giving me a blowjob, but that wasn’t really doing it for me, so I got him on all fours and started rimming his hole. It was a nice, smooth hole too – very pristine. My mind went back to one time when my bf and I went to a sex party in the old GCN space. I was rimming this really cute, clean cut Asian kid that was early 20’s at the oldest and all of a sudden cum just starts running out of his ass. My rimming turned into felching. The idea that someone so clean cut, “innocent” and cute was such a slut was a major turn on. So for the rest of the hookup today I just imagined the guy below me at a sex party taking loads from anyone and everyone.

His hole felt good, but like the guy the day before he wanted to control the position he got fucked in. I started with him on all fours and then then quickly pushed him on his belly – but he didn’t like that, so he rolled over on his back and guided my cock into his ass. We fucked that way a bit, then I slowly rolled him over and eventually got him on his belly. He wanted body contact, so he pushed his back up so it was rubbing against my chest as I fucked him.

It wasn’t long before I felt my load building and then I blew a pretty big load in him – which was a little surprising since I’d cum less than 24 hours before. (Guess the zinc I’m taking at night is helping). I then rolled us over on our side and he insisted on keeping my dick in his ass (I would have anyway), and I just kept pumping my dick in and out of his cummy hole.