The other day I found out that someone I knew really well 10+ years ago is now way up there in a major corporation. Like way way up there… The curious part is the guy’s background…

Without revealing too many details I can say the guy is heavily into S/M. We played back then and his pain threshold was incredible. Let’s just say an ‘intense’ session for this guy is a metal butt plug up his ass, a sounding rod up his dick into his bladder, and then arcing electricity from the rod to the butt plug…

I think he had a thing for me and I could have been his boyfriend if I had wanted it – instead we became good friends. While he wasn’t “my type” he was a really nice guy and being new to S/M I wanted to play with someone who I trusted who had a lot of experience. We had a few sessions together – mummification, flogging, and just plain fucking. Then I met my current boyfriend who wasn’t interested in S/M…

Anyway, my point is that one thing I learned during my time in the S/M community was that being an S/M bottom is very compatible with success in corporate America. I think part of the reason why corporate America doesn’t work for me (I run my own business), is because I’m not submissive. There are certain jobs in corporate America where submissiveness (combined with intelligence) will get you a very long way and make you a lot of money…

The point is that if you’re a submissive bottom, take pride in your submissiveness and use it outside the bedroom to your advantage. If you play your cards right by finding the right top (boss) and treat him right and watch his back, you can do incredibly well.

Bareback.com has put up a new version – for the what? Third time now? The look is generally better…

There are some glitches and gotchas though… For starters a lot of the pics don’t have thumbnails… Take a look at the “Newest Pics” section…

But most importantly you’ll need to log to fix things like your location and dick size. The location issue is a big problem. The whole point of the site is to find guys to fuck. If people aren’t in the correct town, how will you hookup. And everyone now has a dick size of 5″… You’ll probably want to fix that…

In general though, I can’t say I love the interface. I don’t know that it’s any worse than the old interface (which wasn’t all that great), but it’s not nearly as good as Adam4Adam or Manhunt…

The other weird thing is they seem to be transitioning from bareback.com to ibareback.com… Notice the URL after the first page… I like ibareback.com, but bareback.com has more power ’cause it’s simpler.

The transition is a bit like when Adam4Adam migrated to their new interface – there were issues and they eventually got them resolved. The difference was no one was paying. Bareback.com should give their paying customers a rebate to keep them happy, and get things resolved as quickly as possible.

According to the Boyz web site (PDF), two twinks were infected on a bareback video shoot in the UK recently. Here’s the basic story… An 18 y.o., a 21 y.o., and a 26 y.o. each had HIV tests before a BB video shoot last month. It turns out the 26 year old’s test result turn out to be a false negative – he was actually poz at the time of the filming. They did some special HIV test on the other two that can find your HIV status sooner than the standard test, and they both came back poz. Thing is, the 26 y.o. didn’t cum inside either of the other guys…

There’s something that just doesn’t ring true in the story… On average a bottom has to get fucked by poz tops about 50 times to get infected. For both of the kids to get infected that’s a 1 in 2500 chance. Let’s just say the 26 year old’s viral load was spiked and he was a lot more infectious than your average poz guy, but he didn’t cum in either one of them… Precum just isn’t that lethal. One bottom getting infected I might believe, but not two. If they were sharing a needle, I can see it. But I’m just not buying that both of them could get infected in one shot without getting cum in their ass.

It’s weird though… On the one hand it could be a marketing ploy – I mean an 18 y.o. and a 21 y.o. getting infected in a BB video that’s going to be released would have a certain crowd buying it like hot cakes… But they’re not releasing the name of the studio. Unless details are going to get leaked later, I’m not sure how it could be a marketing ploy.

Does anyone know which BB porn companies do twink videos and shoot in the UK? I know there are some European companies that do twink BB videos, but I thought they were all Eastern European…

Apparently the video is due out before Christmas – talk about “gift giving”…

UPDATE: The video in question is “British Bareback Vacation” – it’s been released.

Just want to encourage everyone reading this to check out BarebackSurvey.com. There’s a survey for guys who bareback and separate survey for bug chasers. It just takes a few minutes to complete and the results will be interesting to watch…

I’ve seen party announcements from BMOCO for a while now – basically sex parties for men of color who are on the heavy side (and guys who are into them)…

Unless I’ve been missing something and they’ve been this way all along, they’ve gotten a lot more uninhibited lately – and I just want to give them a huge thumbs up for it…

Here are excerpts from the invites for their next two parties…

Sodom: The Land of Anything Goes
(Fisting, Watersports & Bareback/Raw)
Friday, October 26th, 9:00pm-8:00am in Downtown Brooklyn, NY
Cost: $30

Eyes Wide Shut-Masked Party
The attire for the night will be a mask that covers the eye area and the usual clothes check rule.
The First 6 Hours will be a Dim Room and the Last 6 hours will be a Dark Room
Saturday, October 27th, 6:00pm-6:00am in Downtown Brooklyn, NY
Cost: $20

They are giving out condoms on the “Eyes Wide Shut” party, but how many people do you think are actually going to use them in a completely dark room where guys have blindfolds on?

Guys, if your in NYC and match the description of being stocky/chubby and a person of color (or into that type of guy) – that’s basically a whole weekend of getting bred – go have some fun and see how much raw dick and cum you can get in your ass…

If you’re interested, go to their Yahoo! Group, or contact them at one of these e-mail addresses: BMOCO2@aol.com, BMOCOParty@yahoo.com, BMOCOParty@gmail.com

Here’s a pic of a chubby Brazilian getting fucked raw… Seemed appropriate…

I gave away probably 60 or 70 VHS porn tapes today. Have had the tapes for years and years – many of them were inherited from a friend who moved to London and didn’t want to take them through customs. I kept the tapes that were bareback, and my bf kept maybe 10 of the condom ones. So that means we had close to 100 VHS porn tapes, which is a bit absurd. Just think about the money that went into buying them. Not to mention that we have like 25 bareback DVDs which is more than enough all on their own.

I just don’t watch porn on DVD all that often anymore, and porn on VHS almost never. Back when there wasn’t much on the Internet I watched a lot more of it, but there’s so much out there for free now…

And with all the bareback porn, why in the hell would I want to watch porn with condoms. Condoms make me go soft – even when they’re worn by ‘actors’ in porn… I mean, what’s the point of fucking if you can’t seed the guy? And why would anyone buy porn with condoms when there’s so much good bareback stuff out there?

Some of the tapes were pretty soft core – muscle posing, nudie workouts, stuff like that… Stuff that would have gone well on the TV screens in a gay bar, but it’s not like I have spare TVs lying around with porn running on them like a bar would…

So some random guy (who was actually really cute), got a shitload of porn… Must have been over $300 worth, but it’s been lying around unwatched for years and I couldn’t be bothered to try to sell it…