Over on Breeding Zone I archive the world of bareback blogging just because I’ve seen so many blogs fall by the wayside over the years and it’s a shame to see all their stories just disappear. Hell, a blogger named Geek Slut is the blogger who inspired me to start my blog and all his stories are gone now. I really wish I could go back and read his old stories, but I can’t.

Anyway, I pulled the feed for one blogger who took serious offense at the fact that I pulled and used his RSS feed. Umm, it’s public, he didn’t use snippets, and the last S in RSS stands for ‘syndication’ – which is exactly what I was doing. There’s long-standing precedents for archiving web content – take a look at archive.org and you can see what web sites looked like going back over 10 years. I don’t think he understands the web well enough to understand all that – whatever…

However, his biggest issue seemed to be that he hated being associated with me… On his blog he the following of me…

[rawTOP] repulses me physically, morally and character-wise; he’s sincerely damaged

I love how he throws in not liking my body with the other things – as if there’s a connection between the two. lol

Then he described our brief conversation as follows…

I then explained how I found his views, opinions and more importantly, actions morally repugnant to me and did not want to associate myself with him or his blog. He then went into a diatribe of how he’s a regular Mother Teresa and essentially providing a service to all young kids who (misguidedly!) want to become HIV +.

Actually, I never said any of that. I said more or less what I said above – that I’m trying to preserve the the written legacy of barebackers. In the brief conversation we did have he said the following…

The reality is, I hold NO opinions that coincide with yours (I don’t even respect them) and you do and write things on your blog that make me cringe, specifically intentionally trying to “convert” people to HIV to please an audience. That is so fucking twisted and abusive that it’s devoid of any morality. Meaning, and this is VERY important, I wouldn’t WANT any followers from your blog. I understand you’re only trying to make money. Just don’t do it off me as I don’t want to be in any way associated with you or your blog

Ummm… As far as I know, I’m neg. How exactly am I trying to convert people to HIV? (Sounds like a religion, the way he’s talking about it). If he’s talking about the fact that I find bug chasing sorta fascinating, I allow it to be discussed on my forum, and I think it’s a lot more honest than burying your head in the sand and pretending that being a bareback bottom won’t make you poz – well, yeah, but that’s not anywhere close to what he’s saying try to “convert” people.

Bottom line – my point of view is consistent and honest. His is just fucked up. He has a blog dedicated to his bareback exploits – that’s what you’d call promoting barebacking. Barebacking is risky – especially for bottoms. Yet he doesn’t want to discuss that risk apparently. In the same blog post where he criticizes me he talks about how he convinced to some tops to take raw dick. So he talks about how it’s fun to get guys to take risks, but then wants to pretend he lives in a world where there are no risks. Yeah, that’s way more responsible than what I do…

There are three mentions of ‘risk’ on his blog – one was the risk of getting caught having public sex, another was in a comment submitted by a user, and the third was he didn’t want to “risk” cumming too quickly, so he put on a condom to reduce the sensation and last longer.

There are also three mentions of HIV on his blog – one is in reference to me, the other two are complaining that he realized two of the bottoms he fucked were poz after he fucked them. [Dude, assume all bareback bottoms are poz and you’ll be a hell of a lot closer to the truth.] The words ‘poz’ and ‘pos’ never show up on his blog (only HIV).

Apparently his is a world where “neg” bareback bottoms are really neg and risk never needs to be discussed or explored. Problem is, that world doesn’t really exist. I know, I tried living in it and found things just didn’t work that way.

My approach is to acknowledge the risk, discuss the risk, figure out if it’s right for the particular person, and then have them take responsibility for their sex life and accept the potential consequences ideally before they take the risk. Yes, in some cases “accepting the consequences” means the person embraces the consequences and actually seeks out getting pozzed. It’s their sex life and it’s an informed decision – who is he to say that’s wrong? I have WAY more respect for bug chasers than I do for guys who think they can get fucked raw all the time and stay neg.

I know some guys just don’t want to think about HIV and risk. I get that. But if you’ve never thought about it and you’re kidding yourself by thinking you can have high risk sex and stay neg – then you’re doing a disservice to  yourself and others. While there’s no need to constantly think about the risk – think about it long enough to figure out what’s right for you – so deep down you understand and accept the risks.

So what do you think? Does he have a point?

[And no, I’m not going to tell you who he is and I’ll delete any comments that say who he is… He doesn’t need the free publicity.]

I’ve got a bit of an odd situation… This hot 22 y.o. jock wants to be my ‘boy’ – as in a live-in, dedicated relationship where he’s my primary fuck hole. He’s not in New York, I’ve never hooked up with him, but he’s coming to New York later this month for a few months and will probably stay here permanently…

Here’s the good parts…

• He’s HOT:
  • 22 y.o.
  • Great body (see pic)
  • VERY attractive
• He’s very submissive and wants to be owned
• He likes daddies and bears
• He’s be interested in puppy play
• He’ll drink piss
• He understands/accepts that I’ll fuck other bottoms, not just him, and that there’s a risk of STDs, etc.
• He understands/accepts that my bf comes first and is willing to do a 3way arrangement where he’s be a boy for both of us
• He’s bright, professional, and has a lot going for him other than his looks and submissiveness

But there are things that make me wonder…

• He’s only ever been fucked by 4 guys, and has never had cum in his ass – I’ll be the first person to breed him
• He’s only ever had sex (of any sort) with 20-30 guys (he seems to mostly like oral)
• He’s never met me and has a hard time explaining why he’s into me other than I’m his type and he’s been reading my blog for years
• I can tell he really would prefer a 1-on-1 monogamous relationship with a dom top / master – not a 3way open relationship

Bottom line, I think he’s built me up in his mind and when he really gets to know me he’ll realize I don’t match is fantasy and that will be the end of things. While a good dom top isn’t easy to find, if anyone can get exactly what he wants it’s someone like him – young, hot and focused. I honestly think he’ll realize New York is so big that there are tops who exactly match what he’s looking for and he’ll “trade up”.

Still, there’s a decent chance he’s for real and I’m not going to pass up the chance that something like this can work out. I would be totally hot to take him in full puppy gear to some place like MAL or IML or even just out to the Eagle for drinks. It would also be nice to have a hot ass to fuck and seed whenever I want. And while we don’t really have space in our apartment for a 3rd person right now, that’ll change next year when we move into our new place.

I’ve talked it over with my bf, since having a boy would be a major change in our relationship – He’s also skeptical, but like me sorta hopeful and willing to try it out.

So what do people think? Anyone have experience with a similar relationship?

UPDATE: The boy flaked on me. It’s been about a week and a half since I heard from him. He just sorta disappeared. Maybe he got cold feet. Maybe it was all a fantasy. Guess I’ll never know. Oh well. Woulda been nice, but it’s clearly not going to happen.

I’ve been wanting to get up to 0 gauge on my PA for a while now. Years ago I thought I wanted to go to 00 and didn’t realize how much bigger it was than the 2 ga ring I had in (which was actually more like 3 ga) so I had bought the 00 only to realize it completely fills my urethra, so then I reduced my goal to 0 ga. Back then I never could get the 0 ga in, and I stopped wearing the PA for a while there, but this morning I got it back in… It’s considerably heavier than my 2 ga ring. I really like how heavy it is swinging at the end of my dick.

So here it is…

If you want to see more pics of my PA, check out the photo album of my Prince Albert on Breeding Zone. You’ll need to be logged in to see the album. Originally I embedded a pic from that gallery in this post, but then I realized you couldn’t see it (oops).

I’ve been getting behind on my projects and things are only going to get worse (much worse actually) in September, so I need to get things in order before then. To that end, I’m looking for a porn blog writer. Your work will mostly be on my condom/solo blogs  – there’s Wily Willy, Twisted Pig, a teen blog and a “real men” blog I’ve been wanting to revamp, and some others I’ve been wanting to start (like a pretty boy / jock blog).

I’m looking for someone who first and foremost is a bit pervy and enjoys writing. I don’t want someone with a formal writing style – rather I need someone who has a pretty informal, honest and frank writing style. Ideally you’d also find a really broad range of guys hot ’cause I’ll need you to write about everything from skinny little teens to chubby daddies and that can be difficult if you’re not into the guys you’re writing about. (If I can’t find someone who’s into a broad range of guys I may hire a couple guys – one for twinks and jocks and another for “men”.)

I’m thinking I’ll hire two guys each for 8-10 hours a week – one for twinks/jocks and another for men. You can work a few hours each day – it doesn’t have to be two full days. And I can work around your schedule. For example, if you want to work 2 days every other week, that’s fine. However, long-term commitment to the project is essential. If you’re unemployed and will be going back to full-time work, that probably won’t work. If you’ve got part time work, or your in school, then it’s a much better match.

Pay will start at $10/hour (and go up in time if things go well). If you’re in the US the income you earn will be reported with a 1099 (independent contractor – no benefits and you’re responsible for paying your taxes). You’ll work from home, so you can be located anywhere in the world. I have a preference for someone who’s a native English speaker, though someone who’s been educated in the US (high school, college, etc.) will probably be fine if you really immersed yourself in gay culture while you were here.

If, after all that, you’re interested, send me an e-mail and explain how you’d be good for the position – rawtop@yahoo.com

UPDATE: I wrote this, went and took a short nap, came back and already had two responses and then a few more since then. I’ve changed the description above to hiring two guys, not one, since I want people to be working on stuff they find hot and if you’re into big hairy bears you probably won’t do so well with videos of 99 lb Asian teens and vice versa. So tell me what sorta stuff you’re most interested in…

UPDATE 2: I’ve got all the responses I could possibly handle. Actually a little confused as to who to pick. So not looking for anyone else. If you’ve already sent me something – be patient… I’m trying to figure things out – it’s not an easy process.

Just thought I’d do one more plug for my new discussion forum – Breeding Zone… Basically I’ve moved all my political and medical/scientific discussions over there. Going forward, this blog will pretty much just be about my sex life. (That will make some of you quite happy).

So here are some of the topics that have been discussed on Breeding Zone in the last few weeks…

• Bottoms in urban areas should be getting about 200 to 300 loads a year
• Bottoms like to get fucked by older beefy guys, tops like to fuck younger leaner guys (femmy guys and chubby daddy bottoms are pretty much out of luck)
• Most guys rarely discuss HIV status before barebacking
• Very few guys would discourage a neg friend who was starting to take poz loads
• Barebacking isn’t about an intimate connection – barebackers FAR prefer anonymous sex
• Most guys were under 18 when they took their first load, and in their 20s when they took their first poz load
• Neg bottoms generally want to stay neg, but think about getting pozzed every now and then

If you’re going to IML, post your availability and any bb sex parties you’re having in the IML forum, and you can follow that forum on Twitter – it’s user @IML2010.

The bareback bloggers forum is a great place to see all the different bloggers in one place and discover new ones. And the bareback stories section continues to be one of the most popular areas of the site.

So if you haven’t checked out Breeding Zone, check it out, register and participate!

I’ve been trying to get a forum off the ground for a long time now (almost 2 years), but never could figure out the technology. You guys have been great commenting on this blog, but I wanted to give you guys the ability to start your own topics for discussion. Forums are different from blogs in that on a blog one person sorta controls it. For example on this blog I post something and you comment on it. A forum is more open – anyone can start a topic and then other people join in. It’s more interactive and more about the “community”.

So today I’m launching a forum site – “BreedingZone.com“… Check it out, register, and post some stuff. If you came to the site through the old stories section you may have been redirected to a prototype forum I had up. If you registered there, then you’re already registered.

It’s organized into a few sections…

• General Discussion – This is where you post stuff that doesn’t belong anywhere else. You can talk about anything – sex, politics, religion – keep it polite though!
• HIV Fetish (Gift Giving / Bug Chasing) – I know some of you get off on toxic loads, but not all of you do, so the discussion of bug chasing and gift giving has been given it’s own forum. You must be logged in to view this forum.
• Bareback Bloggers – I’ve automated things so you can read most of the bareback bloggers all in one place.
• Fiction – One of the first thing I put on this site was a stories section. Everything that was in my old stories section is now in the fiction section on Breeding Zone. I’ve separated things so stories about bug chasing and gift giving are in their own section apart from the more general bareback stories.
• Bareback Porn – This is an automated forum. You can’t post any new stuff, but you can comment on what you see. It shows a lot of stuff from a variety of bareback membership sites.
• Regional Hookup Forums – The hookup section is not a replacement for sites like BarebackRT, instead think of it as more like Craigslist where you post ads – so it’s less immediate. Could be something general or it could be for a gangbang, etc.

It also has a blogs section for those of you who want to try your hand at blogging. It’s sorta a community blog. As people start to post blogs I’ll give it more prominence. I tried doing a “BB Buds” blog on this site a while back, but that never really took off. I’ll be contacting guys who contributed to the buds blog and have them move their stuff over and then that’ll get shut down in the near future.

Let me know what you think of it, and if you encounter any problems. I think it’s pretty much ready to go, but I’m sure I’ve missed some details…