I just had a thought and I’m curious to find out if anyone would be interested… There are a growing number of guys who are starting their own sex blogs. If they do it right and are dedicated to it, that’s great – they’ll do well in the long run. Thing is, a lot of them start out, do a few blog posts, and lose interest. Since it’s never considered a major blog, hardly anyone sees it. On top of that a lot of them are putting their blogs on blogspot.com which is one of the worst places to put a sex blog these days thanks to the content warning that fucks up the search engine spiders from indexing the content which means it’s harder for people to find them. I started on blogspot, but it was different back then – no content warnings…

So, I’m thinking of starting up a blog for “friends” (haven’t figured out the exact name yet) where people could post their own blog posts. Contributors would have direct access to the blogging interface to enter their stories. Each of their posts would prominently say who they were and link their home page, which can be here or somewhere else. They’d also get a category or tag URL which would be just their blog posts. Initially I’d have to approve their posts, but as they got the hang of it they’d get full access to publish their posts immediately.

The advantage of this over having your own blog is you’d get a lot more exposure. Typically an average sex blog gets 100-200 visits a day – the more successful ones get maybe 500 visits a day. I’m getting about 3,500 visits a day and that number is growing every month. For the average person who does it a little and stops, their blog posts will get more attention, but it’s also a good thing even for guys who have their own blog – post some of your hookups here instead of on your blog and it’s like a full page ad for your blog.

If you have a blog somewhere else (even one you’ve sorta abandoned), I’ll even work with you to move your content over if you want. All I ask is that the content be removed or redirected from the other location so there aren’t duplicate content penalties.

For guys who really get into it and have quality contributions I’m willing to compensate them. I’ll have to figure out what makes sense – one option is to have them put an affiliate ad or two in their posts and on their home page, another option is to compensate them on a pay-per-post basis (not a lot of money, but a little).

For guys who are more into fiction I could do the same type of thing by reviving the bareback stories blog which I had planned to migrate to a new forum (which I still plan on getting up one of these days).

If any of you are interested, contact me @ rawtop@yahoo.com and tell me which your interested in – personal sex blogging or writing fiction for the stories blog.

UPDATE:

3 or 4 of you have expressed an interest in about 12 hours, so this is going to happen. I’m setting something up now. But I wanted to mention that the same thing can be done on two of my other domains: 1) WilyWilly.com is more for condom and solo porn, so if you use condoms and want to be able to mention them, then that’s the site for you or 2) TwistedPig.com is a site I haven’t mentioned yet ’cause I just set it up last week and there isn’t much content on it. If you’re more into hardcore kink (like Leather Skin Biker is), that’s a good site for you…

Here’s an exercise for those of you who use Firefox… Go through the alphabet one letter at a time and see what Firefox suggests for you. My suggested destinations are pretty revealing…

A – Adam4Adam.com
B – BarebackRT.com
C – Chase.com (my bank)
D – DedicatedNow.com (my hosting company)
E – Elance.com (where I hire people who do work for me)
F – Feedburner.com (how I send out daily e-mails)
G – GoDaddy.com (my registrar)
H – AmateurGayTeenVideo.com (one of my sites, not sure how it relates to the letter ‘h’)
I – IMRL.com (International Mr. Leather)
J – JizzFlixxx.com (my favorite tube site for posting my personal videos)
K – Kink.com (a new sponsor – they run BoundGods.com & ButtMachineBoys.com)
L – LeatherSkinBiker.com (a site I host for another blogger)
M – Mail.Yahoo.com (my e-mail)
N – NewYork.Craigslist.org/M4M/
O – NewYork.Craigslist.org/M4M/ (not sure how it related to the letter ‘o’)
P – PropertyShark.com (looking up details of places we might be interested in)
Q – QBTimeTracker.com (time sheets that integrate with QuickBooks for my business)
R – rawTOP.com
S – SweetAndRaw.com
T – Twitter.com
U – Unica.com (web analytics for a client)
V – VOD.rawTOP.com
W – WilyWilly.com (one of my sites)
X – XTube.com
Y – YouTube.com
Z – ZBuckz.com (one of my sponsors – they run the HDK sites)

So what does Firefox know about you?

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There’s a guy I saw a few months ago – hot little tattooed guy. I remember him telling me back then he did gogo dancing. He’s not the pretty boy type – more of a tough little guy… Anyway he resurfaced the last couple weeks and he was the one who I didn’t hookup with on Monday ’cause I wasn’t sure whether it would go well given my mellow mood…

Tonight I wasn’t really looking – just sorta bored and looking at BarebackRT for the hell of it. He said ‘hi’ and I knew he was nearby so I figured what the hell – asked my bf if it was OK, and then went over.

I got there and he was really short which was sorta cool. My boyfriend is short, but this guy was noticeably shorter. He just had a t-shirt and underwear on so I could tell he was really thin too… This promised to be fun…

We went in the the bedroom, took off our clothes (I left on my tshirt). He got on his knees and started sucking my cock. He was so adorable… So tiny, so cute…

That went on for a while, though not too long given how long a serious cocksucker would make it last. It was a decent blowjob (no teeth, but wasn’t really doing anything special for me – which is pretty typical of me and blojobs). When I was cleaning up before I went over I noticed my dick was pretty chubby – it was like there was still a little bit of the partial pill that I took a couple days before that was still active. I wasn’t super hard or anything – just thick and spongey.

I wanted to rim his ass, which I think surprised him a bit. He seemed to like it – nice hole – his ass was a bit fuzzy which was cool. Eventually I had it really wet with spit, stood up, but some spit on my dick and shoved in. I love how little guys respond. Since they’re smaller it’s a bit more intense when they get fucked. It took a few strokes for him to get used to my cock, and then we were off…

Fucking him reminded me of fucking one of my old boyfriends (the one who got me addicted barebacking and blowing load up guys’ asses). With my old boyfriend I could literally get in deep enough to hit his second sphincter. I couldn’t quite do that with this guy, but it felt like it was close.

At first I didn’t know if I could cum all that quickly, but it wasn’t long before I felt my orgasm coming – gave him a decent load, though not a huge one.

We then laid next to each other and I played with his nipples while he jacked off (it was a dry orgasm). The whole encounter was sorta passionless – it was just a fuck. I think he liked me, but I wonder if the lack of emotion wasn’t due to whatever he was smoking.

The funny part was he told me I was a lot more attractive than my pics. Guess I need one of my tricks to take some decent pics of me on of these days…

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Just came across this… It’s a picture of my dorm room in grad school (1991 +/-). Notice the posters on the wall…

The funny part is when I’d fuck a guy back then I’d start with a few raw strokes and then put on a condom. Going raw helped get me hard. Looking back at that time I was way too inhibited…

I remember one time when this hot little trainer from Manhattan Plaza Gym and I hooked up he sat on my dick raw, no questions asked. I did everything I could do to avoid cumming in his ass. Then we flipped and he fucked me bareback. He came like a half second after pulling out of my ass. I didn’t feel comfortable about it, but didn’t say anything either. The next day I gave him an earful.

In hindsight I sorta wish I’d started fucking guys raw back then – seeing how far I could go before they’d ask for a condom. But I was too scared.

If you’re wondering what I looked like back then, here’s some pics…

Looking back I can’t believe how insecure I was in my looks. I constantly thought I needed to lose weight…

Those pics were taken by a john I met at a hustler bar who turned into a friend. He took me on vacations – paid for everything, and if we had sex I got some money out of it. But usually it was just hanging out, going to dinner or the theater. It was an interesting time in my life…

Load 2009-3

Monday night I had the place to myself so I figured I’d fuck someone. Thankfully, there were a few options. For starters, the older muscle daddy who I fuck pretty regularly e-mailed me asking if I was looking. Then there was this hot young guy on BarebackRT who had said earlier in the day he was interested (and was sorta pissed when I didn’t follow through). Then there was this this guy I’ve been wanting to fuck for a while who’s in my neighborhood, short, lean and tattooed (just my type). But the short tatttoed guy wanted to hookup right away at his place and I needed to walk the dogs, etc. Also, I was in a weird mood. I just wanted to kick back, watch some porn, and have someone suck me and get me hard and then fuck them. When it came down to it the older guy fit the bill perfectly even if he wasn’t as hot as the little tattooed guy…

PigMaster from BarebackRT had sent me the video from their weekend in Palm Springs the week before and I figured I’d watch it while I was with the older guy. He was a little late getting here due to traffic, so I popped it in and started watching it – the first scene (I think it might be the whole video) is a big orgy scene. It wasn’t long before I was about to cum, which was bad since I had someone on the way over, so I managed to stop from cumming and turn off the video.

When he arrived I got the video back running while he stripped down and then I just sat back on the couch and watched the video while he gave me head. He wasn’t being careful enough with his teeth so it was a little painful and far from the best blowjob I’ve gotten, but it (plus the video) was good enough to get me completely hard, so I told him to get on all fours and I fucked him while watching a guy get fucked on all fours in the video.

I don’t think my bottom really liked the video. He definitely didn’t get into it – he barely looked at it while I was fucking him. I think part of it was that the video was obviously a poz fuckfest where he’s neg and is the type that doesn’t want to think about that side of things, even though he loves getting loads in his ass…

Before long I was about to blow I felt it churning in my balls and asked him (rhetorically) whether he wanted my load. He said to spank his ass when I was cumming, which I did… I hadn’t cum in days and he got a huge load up there… He then started jacking his dick and I continued to fuck him until he blew his load. When I pulled out he wasn’t completely clean (but pretty close) so I didn’t try felching him or anything…

We talked a bit about things and then he left and I got back to some tedious work I was doing before he got there…

Well, this isn’t one I was expecting… Apparently there have been rumors for a while that there was sodomy going on in some of the Al Qaeda cells. Those rumors were confirmed when they did the autopsy on one of three suicide bombers from Tademaït – one of the three guys had been raped right before he was sent off on his suicide mission. It wasn’t a loving fuck – the guy had a “large tear in [his] anus”. They’re doing analysis on the semen to figure out who the top was. Of course semen in an ass means they were fucking raw. Actually, I’m not sure why anyone would bother with protection if they’re about to blow themselves up.

While it’s surprising in one way, it’s not in another. There’s a history of “acceptable” homosexual sex in Arab culture (this was the subject of my honors thesis in college). For starters Arab men are more comfortable with each other’s bodies than western men. They walk down the streets hand-in-hand with friends and think nothing of it. But in traditional Arab culture there are documented cases of “allowed” homosexuality (I’m talking their pre-colonial period – so roughly 100+ years ago).

First were what we’d now call fems or transgendered. Early westerners who visited Arabia saw men dressed in feminine colors (not women’s clothes but men’s clothes with a feminine twist). These men were allowed to spend time in private with women who were not close relatives (which is otherwise not allowed). They weren’t having sex changes or anything, but there was the recognition that femmy guys weren’t a threat to the women and could have sex with the men without disrupting the balance of things, so to speak.

There was also occasional sex between apprentices and their “masters”. When young boys would train in a craft they would apprentice with a master craftsman. The process would take a few years and the boys (they were in their teens) were sometimes fucked by their masters. It was just part of the process – the boy was literally an indentured servant of the master and had to do whatever the master wanted – including sex. I’m not saying it was common, but it was frequent enough that historians made note of it. Of course, unlike the cross dressers, you were expected to stop it once you stopped working for the master. It really was sex based on power and control, though given how closely they worked together I’m sure there was sometimes an element of love in there too.

Getting back to Al Qaeda – apparently they’re using sexual violence as one of the tools to mentally train their suicide bomber recruits. I wonder exactly how that works. Maybe it’s about breaking them down and making them feel worthless. I just don’t know – it would be interesting to hear more. I’m also curious whether this will discredit Al Qaeda in the eyes of regular muslims…