Sorry I’m just now getting to the write up of Mid-Atlantic Leather (MAL)… Over the weekend I was either incredibly busy or really tired, then when I came back I had to spend a day dealing with some legal shit. Then I had a busy/frustrating day, etc… You get the idea.

So I drove down to DC with @rjinny and @nycivyfreak this past Friday and we got in at 1:30. First thing I learned is that the diehard guys get in on Thursday… Note to self – go down on Thursday next year… I had actually made plans to fuck and film two guys in the afternoon, but I got busy with other stuff and let the plans fell through (my fault).

I should backup and say it had been almost a month and a half (43 days) since I’d last fucked anyone. I just hadn’t really been in the mood. Life was busy and stressful, and then just before I went to MAL I came down with a small cold that only cleared a day or so before I left. One of my goals for the weekend was to just relax and take it easy. It wasn’t really bothering me all that much that I wasn’t busy fucking guys. I just needed down time. Friday turned out to be the mellow day…

@PortaUrinal stopped by with a CASE of beer for me… I had invited him to be the urinal at the gangbangs I had planned and he wanted to be well stocked. The thing with piss bottoms is they may buy you beer, but they want it back when you’re done with it 🙂

The two of us went downstairs to the leather mart where I looked for a few things… First blindfolds for the gangbangs, and second a better flogger. I knew Janette Heartwood would be there. Her floggers are incredible and I wanted to pick one out while she still had the best selection. I have a soft, thuddy moose flogger I got from here a while back as well as a cowhide one from Master André in Montréal. I’ve always liked Janette’s slightly better and a friend had told me many years ago that hers were the best you could buy. Anyway, bottoms had been complaining that my floggers weren’t painful enough, so my goal was to buy a more painful one so I bought a oil tanned flogger from her (she only had one – it’s good I got there early). It’s a nice addition to my collection and it’s a bit longer, which adds even more punch when it hits the bottom…

While we were standing there a guy saw me getting flogged by Janette and started talking to PortaUrinal. The guy was this skinny guy and he was hoping I was a bottom and could take his 10+ inch dick. lol

We also looked at puppy tails but I wasn’t up for spending $90 for a puppy tail when I didn’t have a puppy to use it on…  🙁

I then went back to my room and Jayson Park came over. By this point I was really mellow and relaxed. I wasn’t really up for a proper fuck, but having Jayson in the room, it was impossible not to fuck him. So we did a little fucking but nothing too serious (and I didn’t cum).

PortaUrinal then came over to drain my bladder (my piss was pretty bad that day, but he managed). Then he talked me into going downstairs to the bar to have more beer. I was trying to hurry to get ready to go downstairs and in the process managed to catch my dick in my zipper (ouch!) and I actually drew blood in the process. So that meant I wasn’t going to be fucking anyone for the rest of the night (not that I was in the mood to do it anyway).

While we were down there we ran into SFVersCumBoy. I sorta recognized his beard and stopped him and asked if he was from San Francisco. When he was, I introduced myself. We spent the rest of the night talking. PortaUrinal was plying us with beer and getting our piss loads in return.

When the bar closed up at 2am we went up to the room with SFVersCumBoy, his boyfriend and some of his friends. They left the door open and at one point this guy wandered in and after a bit pulled out his cock. He was uncut with a lot of foreskin. SFVersCumBoy said he preferred less foreskin. I was drunk so I pulled out my dick and showed him my sloppy circumcision that sometimes looks like it’s uncut. Of course he started sucking my dick (in front of everyone). Thing was, I was wasted so I didn’t even get hard.

I had had 5 cans of beer and 3 pints… I blame the excess on PortaUrinal, he blames it on me… Truth was that we both enabled each other. My mellow mood meant my guard was down and I wasn’t policing myself like I should have (and I paid for it the next day).

Eventually enough was enough so PortaUrinal and I stumbled back to our rooms and tried to sleep it off…

I was updating my spreadsheet of fucks for the new year and thought I’d do a year end wrap up for 2010… Here are my stats for the past 5 years. (Yes, I’ve been keeping a spreadsheet for that long)…

As you can see 2008 was my best year, and 2010 was pretty much the same as 2009 – 51 hookups (about 1 a week). I fucked 33 guys I hadn’t fucked before (almost identical to 2009’s 34 new holes). I gave 39 loads which is an improvement over 2009, and 26 of those loads were in guys I hadn’t cum in before which was a big improvement over 2009’s 16 new loads.

I can sorta tell 2011 will be more of the same – possibly lower. I’ve got a big project this year that’s going to keep me really busy starting in March. We’ll have to see how I can fit sex into that…

Mind you, that’s not all that impressive – I know that… I’ve got fuck buds who take over 200 loads in a year… My 39 loads given isn’t all that hot, but it is what it is…

If you’re going to MAL, here are a few suggestions…

Rooms

I thought it would be cool if I started a room block for barebackers. Yeah, I know there’s going to be barebacking going on everywhere, but I thought it would be cool if a lot of the “take all loads” bottoms were on one floor – sorta be the starting point when you’re looking for sex… Unfortunately the room block is based on my name and I’m not giving my name out here. If I know you well already, contact me and I’ll give you the details.

I will say we’re blocked into rooms on the 6th floor, so when you check in, ask to be on the 6th floor. However, the manager could override things and move us to another floor. When I check in early Friday afternoon I’ll tweet my room number. So if you’ve got a smart phone check my tweets before you check in to confirm the floor.

Post your availability in the MAL Forum on Breeding Zone

Last year I set up a forum on Breeding Zone for IML. Breeding Zone was pretty new back then and not many people posted. Well, there’s a lot more of you on Breeding Zone now so I’m hoping the MAL forum I just set up with get more activity… It’s great for cum dumps – just post your room number and the fact that you’re looking and have guys stop by. But it can also be good for tops too… And obviously, those of you who are hosting gangbangs and sex parties should post.

Any threads you start will get tweeted on @MALbareback. So it’s good to post a thread of general availability, but also post new threads when you’re literally in your room wanting guys to stop by right then. Also think about the fact that the title of your thread is what gets tweeted, so definitely put your room number in the title and if you have a Twitter account, put that too… So something like “@PortaUrinal available for piss loads in room 1234” would be a good title – then you’d go into more detail in the post.

Follow @MALbareback on Twitter

As I mentioned, everything in the MAL forum will get tweeted on @MALbareback (within 30 minutes). I’ll also retweet anything else I come across as I have a chance. So mention @MALbareback in your tweets so I see your post. I’ll monitor the #MAL hash tag, but won’t see things posted that way quite as quickly…

If any of you are web designers and looking for work, please contact me – rawtop@breedingzone.com – be sure to tell me about your experience and give examples of your work. First and foremost you should be a good designer, but if you know the basics of PHP that’s a huge plus. I’d prefer someone from central/south America – the time zones work well the money I’m able to pay stretches further down there than it does here.

I will say I’m picky when it comes to design. My bf is a web designer but too busy with other work to do my stuff. I know good design (though you wouldn’t know it looking at most of my sites). I tend to prefer designers who primarily design in Illustrator. Designers who design everything in Photoshop usually have a different aesthetic that I don’t like as well as Illustrator-based design. Though, obviously, Photoshop is necessary for some tasks…

If you’re available and we’re a match I can keep you pretty busy for a while. I need more than a few hours a week. Contact me and we’ll discuss the details.

Last year was my first year going to MAL (Mid-Atlantic Leather). It was a lot of fun – sorta smaller version of IML, still plenty of sex to be had though… Well, this year they’ve made some changes. In previous years it was at a fairly small hotel (340 rooms) and you had to pay $185 to the club running the event just to be eligible to book a room at the host hotel. This year they’ve moved to a much bigger hotel (more then double the size – 836 rooms) and they dropped the requirement to pay them to attend the event. Well, the change of venue and policy turned out to be a great idea and a month before the event the host hotel was completely booked and they had to get a block of rooms across the street at another hotel.

IML is in a 2,000 room hotel – and doesn’t always fill the hotel – so this means MAL is now probably at least half the size of IML – IML is huge, so that makes MAL BIG – in the middle of a down economy too… That means MAL will probably have about 1500 horny gay men wanting to fuck… It looks like it’s going to be a lot of fun!

Continuing the tradition of gangbangs that I’ve hosted at IML and MAL – I’m doing two this year… One on Saturday the 15th and one on Sunday the 16th. Both will have 2 bottoms (possibly 3 if it looks like enough tops are signed up). And curiously it’s not just poz bottoms who want to be the ones getting gangbanged. Each of the gangbangs will have one poz bottom and one “neg” bottom…

The Saturday gangbang will have blindfolded bottoms. The blindfolds should be an interesting twist. Bottoms at gangbangs are pretty much just fuck holes to start with. The blindfolds will make it even more so. In the past the most assertive bottoms have gotten the most loads. It will be interesting to see if the bottoms can still be assertive when they’re blindfolded. Anyway, here are the bottoms…

First up is a hot beefy muscled poz Canadian guy – my height, my age and the body I should have… He’s fucking hot!

I’m thinking he’s going to be really popular… 🙂

The other bottom is TallDCPig on BBRT – and he’s definitely tall – 6’4″. Originally he was going to bottom for the Sunday gangbang, but when one of the original bottoms dropped out and the replacement wanted Sunday, I move TallDCPig to Saturday. There’s just something about him that you can tell he’s a die hard slutty pig boy… His last test was a year ago and was neg, but he’s taken a lot of loads since then… Haven’t asked him how long he’s been taking loads… Might be one of those guys who’s resistant/immune…

So far I’m having really good response for the Saturday gangbang – 35 tops have signed up on BBRT and we’ve still got weeks to go…

I’ll be adding a 3rd bottom, but haven’t picked one yet. There are a few bottoms who I can contact at the last minute if I need a bottom. I’m hoping for a particular bottom, but it’s far from finalized yet…

The Sunday gangbang is sorta a study in contrasts – we’ve got the hot poz muscled 20-something jock paired with one of those “average” guys who’s just a really good slutty bottom…

The hot poz jock is btmpaul on BBRT – he’s totally my type… Short, young, and a hot body…

The second bottom is a very hot 21 y.o. black guy who hit me up on Adam4Adam. His profile says “neg / safe sex only”, but as I was talking to him I realized he’d be up for a lot more. Normally I’d think someone like that was just a flake, but I could tell by the way he answered the questions that he was pretty serious about it. Somehow I think the “neg / safe sex only” is just a cover. I’ll ask him his status at the end of the gangbang – that’s probably the time I’ll get the most honest answer. I don’t have a pic I can share. His good pics on A4A are face pics and a dick pic. His ass pic was sorta small and low-quality (but he’s got an incredible ass).

There’s even some other neg guys who’ve been wanting to bottom. It’s like we’ve turned a corner and more and more bottoms are giving in and getting pozzed…

So those are the plans for now. If you want to be one of the tops, sign up on BarebackRT and I’ll send details out that way. Closer to the event I’ll start collecting e-mail addresses when I advertise on Craigslist, but for now I’m just coordinating things on BBRT.

Load 2010-39

There are a lot of guys I’ve been wanting to fuck, last night I checked another one off the list. This guy stuck in my mind in part because he had told me at some point in the past that he was poz, but not on meds. While I tend to believe that guys who say they’re undetectable really are at least pretty close to undetectable, you never really know what you’re getting when guys have “Ask Me” or “Negative” in their profiles, and when they have “Poz” in their profiles you don’t know whether they’re undetectable and shooting blanks or high viral load and toxic as shit. The uncertainty just comes with the territory. I mean, with HIV criminalization laws in effect in many places it’s no wonder people aren’t upfront with their real HIV status – especially when they’re high viral load poz like this guy. And I don’t know if this guy even remembered telling me in the past that he wasn’t on meds. He didn’t bring up anything related to HIV status this time.

This guy isn’t the first high viral load guy I’ve known I’ve fucked – there was a guy at IML a year ago who told me he wasn’t on meds, and one of my fuck buds here in NY is long-term poz and I fucked him a few times when he wasn’t on meds (he’s gone on them in the past year)… Still, it’s fairly novel to fuck a guy who you know is toxic…

This turned out to be a pretty simple hookup. Middle of the afternoon he hit me up and I told him I was looking for around 7pm. He said sure, gave me his number and address, and then I confirmed before I left. He didn’t respond at first when I texted him to confirm, but eventually we got that worked out.

I showed up and he had this little room in an SRO. Amazingly there was almost nothing on his shelves. It was like he owned next to nothing. I’m sure there’s a story behind that, but I didn’t hear it. He strips down and he’s got a nice body. He had thick muscular hairy legs and was thin and mostly smooth from the waist up  (though he had these great hairy forearms) – he reminded me of a centaur – it was sorta hot.

I asked him if he wanted me to fuck him with the PA in or out. He picked out ’cause he wanted to suck my dick. I was sorta intending on taking it out anyway, but would have kept it in if he wanted to get fucked with it. He asked the question I hear a lot – “Did it hurt?” Yeah, it hurt… I’ll go on a tangent here and say that ever since I’ve gone up to 0 gauge it’s hurt a lot. It’s big enough that precum dries on it and then irritates the piercing. Not quite sure what to do about that…

Anyway, getting back to the hookup – he proceeded to suck my dick a bit while I played with his body and his hole. He was wearing a Nasty Pig jockstrap – it suited him 😉  His dick was sorta irrelevant and never came out of his jockstrap.

Eventually I wanted to fuck, so I pulled away from him and got him on his back. I think he thought he was going to get fucked, but I pushed his ass up and rimmed him. He had a nice, lightly hairy ass that was a bit musky even though he had just gotten out of the shower. I rimmed it for a while, got it nice and wet with spit, then lowered his ass down, put some spit on the head of my cock and shoved in.

Lately I haven’t really enjoyed spit fucks – the spit usually doesn’t provide enough lube, but this time it worked. His hole felt good. Even though our faces were just inches away from each other he didn’t seem to want to kiss or anything – he seemed like he just wanted to get fucked.

Missionary isn’t usually a position I can come in, so I started rolling him over gradually. Eventually he was mostly on his belly. I hadn’t taken off my shirt and I was sorta glad. It was cold out and he had the window wide open just a couple feet from us.

Eventually I could feel my orgasm building and he knew it was coming as well. I could tell he was hungry for my cum and when I came I blew a good sized load in him. I rolled over so we were on our sides and slowly pumped his now cummy ass. It felt great. I thought about felching him, but was a bit out of breath and wasn’t really in the mood.

He just laid there. I could sorta feel he was done and not looking for anything more from me. He’d gotten the load and that’s all I was there for. So after just a minute or two I got up, put on my clothes and left.

Total elapse time was maybe 15 minutes.